Describe your ideal partner! [Archive]

JoshAries

11-14-2006, 01:14 AM

Chidogan inspired me to do this thread. Dunno if Im gunna go out of line so Mod's keep your aim ready!

Describe your ideal life partner. Try and include mental and physical details of your perfect woman or man or even s/he.... if you're into that ~.~' Even get into personality traits if you want, go as far as you feel like going. Things you would like to do with said person. Hah, even describe someone you're already with if thats how you feel.

**** Letting everyone know that we must keep this PG-13! Sexual issues should be alright to discuss, but lets not get too discript because we must remember that there are still minors present in the forums and we must keep their fragile little minds as solid as possible.... no matter how much I want to hear about it ~.~' ****

Chidongan

11-14-2006, 01:50 AM

yay dedicated to me!!

me ideal women would be:

Height: around 5'0"
Body Type: slim/slender. (not anerexic)
Hair: shoulder length, brown or black.
Eyes: any color.
Ethnicity: don't matter.
Bust: not too big, not too small, just right. ^^
Ass: only putting this one in here becuase people seem to love this aspect of women alot. ^^ i like it when it's very small and well rounded. i don't like big butts. and i cannot lie. ^^

now best part:

personality: i like smart girls. with flair. and perferibally funny. ^^

well there she is. my ideal women. ^^

Flyin

11-14-2006, 02:04 AM

Ok, here's mine, but this is only for a real relationship. I tend to get around...

Hieght: 5'0" to 5'8" Don't like 'em too short.
Body: Athletic
Hair: Something spunky
Eyes: Don't matter
Ethnicity: I do like the asians....
Bust: Eh, nothing too big
Ass: Tight, no chunky monkeys
Legs: I have a bit of a leg fetish, gotta' have nice legs
Personality: Smart, and outgoing. Sporty is a must! A little like an SUV, ya' know, sporty, can take her anywhere, got some muscle, and still looks good on the driveway.
Don't let it get around, but I'm a softy for sittin' by the fire holding a girl and talking.

Azure Wrath

11-14-2006, 02:41 AM

^^ doesn't like asians ?!?! ^^

Mine:
height : just shorter then me please
Body: Not huge, but not anorexic either. all in good proportion
Hair: I'm not pickey... but i have a thing for long hair
Eyes: They must just match the rest of her features... blue or green strike points though
Boobs: i like boobies... er.... yeah, they can't be toooo big, and also not too small. about... hmm... the size of... anywhere in the range of angeline jolies' boobs and Keira knightley's boobs'. a boob must fit in my hand, otherwise its too much
Ass: Not too small please, i want something to grab. but only with one hand, i don't want to grab one cheek with both hands. Little Bubble-butts are cute!
Legs: hmm... sexy legs are always good, but i'm more a boob man

Personality: Ok. first up, she MUST have a good sense of humour. that is a must! Second of all, she must be friendly and not be stuck up. She must have some restraint, but also musn't be too much of a good girl. She must be smart(ish) and ... she must be easy to talk to

steve

11-14-2006, 05:21 AM

Mine

Human.
Female.
Not dead.
Not emo
if shes a vegetarian, she hasto know her shit

thats it.

Named

11-14-2006, 09:32 AM

Mine

Human.
Female.
Not dead.
Not emo
if shes a vegetarian, she hasto know her shit

thats it.

I agree. I must say I find it morally disconcerting for anyone to so readily and easily itemise the qualities of a companion whom they seek; which to me leaves the foul impression of treating a human being as if they were attainable property...

Anyhoo, on those terms i'd concur with what you listed. Anymore specific is just disturbing. lol

badash

11-14-2006, 09:50 AM

I agree. I must say I find it morally disconcerting for anyone to so readily and easily itemise the qualities of a companion whom they seek; which to me leaves the foul impression of treating a human being as if they were attainable property...

Anyhoo, on those terms i'd concur with what you listed. Anymore specific is just disturbing. lol

But surly taste and choice are free gifts of life. to not have an ideal is to say that you do not care for choice and would be happy to settle for anything, this in turn leads me to believe that you are

1)Unable to grasp a desired "beauty" and do not have the required taste to choose something that would appeal

2) You have been scarred by an attempt to stay with a girl who you thought was the one, this in turn unfolds as skeptical belief of a truly great woman

3) your just trying to sound different or not cliche

Either way I think that is almost absurd to try and reason a point of not caring for the things that you would like a partner to posses. Indeed Plato would agree with me to the fact that EVERYBODY has a want and its as simple as that.

If I were to place 3 pictures on a table and say "These girls are all have the same mentality but they all look different" then you could not pick one of the three out to meet and date?

I think not Named me boy...

As for me my prefect partner found me and was completely what I didn't expect But alas I fell in love and everything so in a way it IS true that wanting this and that is no answer But still I have things I like about her because of her look so its also a constant thing.

Or something like that.

Named

11-14-2006, 10:00 AM

But surly taste and choice are free gifts of life. to not have an ideal is to say that you do not care for choice and would be happy to settle for anything, this in turn leads me to believe that you are

I contend this assumption before addressing the rest, which will likely be made redundant by this clarification.
I never said I would settle for anything. Refusing to list traits I seek in a human companion as if she or he were cattle or a playstation game does not default me to choosing any random I happen across.

I'd much rather NOT choose. Love is not about appreciating measurable qualities of a person - too many people make that mistake and it only causes them misery in the end.
Love can transcend this pettiness. I have felt it for another before. I didn't choose her for the way she presented herself to the world! I didn't send out applications with "Tick here if applies". All of that is so degrading to me, to even categorise women or men by ANY particular series of qualities is so very demeaning to what value they can really be worth.

It's ridiculous, it's pointless and it's a poor outlook to have for the sake of any successful relationship.

Just live your life and feel blessed should you happen to find a companion whom you cherish. NOT for fitting to preconcieved criteria but because you cherish WHO THEY ARE. Gods, you shouldn't love a person for satisfying requirements... It's so belittling it aches me to even consider.
We're not exactly in dire need of populating Earth. We don't need to pair off... o.O No rush, people. No rush.

badash

11-14-2006, 10:13 AM

It's ridiculous, it's pointless and it's a poor outlook to have for the sake of any successful relationship.

I do not think so Named... it is hard to fall in love with somebody if they do not meet the necessary criteria that you have created. I feel the need to stress that it is not ALWAYS about love anyway, in fact some cases of love have stemmed from the fact that a person has only approached a girl or guy because of their outside appearance and in so doing made a common and fast bond that later on creates a higher feeling of love and commitment.

You simply do not choose a person to devote yourself to at random you HAVE to have something to feel close to, a bond or an attraction and so being the case here I cannot comprehend how you would say about a random person.

Though your ideal is sweet I do not fully believe that you understand your own feelings on this matter. or ya just cant work um out.

All good

-Badash

Named

11-14-2006, 10:20 AM

You simply do not choose a person to devote yourself to at random you HAVE to have something to feel close to, a bond or an attraction and so being the case here I cannot comprehend how you would say about a random person.

I agree, you don't. I wasn't suggesting anyone does. I was suggesting we forget about a PURSUIT of love altogether and just -live- our lives. We interact with people every day, supposing we all function in societies. We make new friends, we meet new people all the time. Why search? Live your life. Be happy with your life.
Should you come across someone you develop feelings for which happen to be reciprocated as they likely would in such an encounter, well surely that is nothing but an improvement on the life which already fullfilled you. Two stable people being with each other because they fell in love, not because they applied for Emotional Employment under your Act of Compatibility by Unrealistic Values as determined by the commitee of Fatal Assumptions to Ruin your Relationships.

Though your ideal is sweet I do not fully believe that you understand your own feelings on this matter. or ya just cant work um out.
Eh, considering you leapt on what must have been my first sentence regarding the matter, i'd not be inclined to agree with any such deduction of my personal beliefs ;P

If I were to place 3 pictures on a table and say "These girls are all have the same mentality but they all look different" then you could not pick one of the three out to meet and date?
I apologise for not answering this sooner.
You're right, I wouldn't pick one of the three. I don't want a girlfriend of generic mentality. I don't want a girlfriend at all. I don't have preferences. Like I said, if I chanced across a girl who I grew to love, then win for me; i'm not going to love her if I do not get along with her personality, whatever it may be like, or if I do not find her attractive, however she looks.
The possible outcome would be nothing but a bonus in my life. If this never occurs, what do I lose? I'm happy with my life; I don't need to fill it with distractions and I certainly don't have a motive for finding a companion in any rush. I'm not seeking to reproduce yet. Perhaps I never will.

I would want to be loved not because of my interests or my blonde hair, blue eyes, Australian nationality, or any favoured trait of my personality. I would want to be loved because I am loved.
We're not unique. You can find millions of people who conform to ONE criteria of a companion, no matter how refined your list. That isn't a very honourable conception of love to me.

badash

11-14-2006, 10:31 AM

Eh, considering you leapt on what must have been my first sentence regarding the matter, i'd not be inclined to agree with any such deduction of my personal beliefs ;P

No Named... don't say stuff like that dude, ya make me out be trying to be nasty or something. Its just that I cannot understand about the random thing.

I guess that what your saying is you will live your life and see what comes along BUT if this is the case it a really silly thing to say on a "Describe your ideal partner!" because you obviously have not got one.

I thought this thread was about naming things you would like a partner to have and if so then ya ain't gotta get all melancholy, just say something that ya would like right?

Named you are the master of getting me wrong but I guess its hard to set a good tone sometimes while ya type and not talk.

Named

11-14-2006, 10:33 AM

I'm sorry, I didn't mean it with any malice. I'm speaking strictly from an objective stance and responding to how my initial argument was interpeted.

I add an edit to my last post. It's quite sizable and I think answers your questions better than the first half.

I'd say this discussion follows the topic. We are discussing the idea of listing qualities about people.

badash

11-14-2006, 10:43 AM

Well I like sweet girls... not those two faced backstabbing Harpie bitches that tell ya they love ya and then slam ya heart into the ground. I wish there was a feature to find that out before I ever got close to um.

Named

11-14-2006, 10:47 AM

I agree. I wouldn't consider something as broad as that to be ethically objectionable. It's fair to say and I hope you find someone who treats you right =) Most of us have had enough who treat us badly.
I just have a moral aversion to people forming a list of criteria needed for application to Love. lol The very idea defies what love should be about.

JoshAries

11-14-2006, 10:48 AM

Hehe... I knew this would happen at some point... funny thing is I knew it would either be Badash or Named that would start it ~.~' Hehe.

I intended this thread for people to describe their ideal partner, but everyone should know full well that almost no one will end up with their imaginary partner who's perfect in everyway. Its just discussing what kind of person you'd feel that you could spend the rest of your life with.

I suppose I would have to admit that somethings that may be mentioned in this thread could be considered shallow and narrow minded, but what can one say? Many people dream for what they may not be able to attain. Though ofcourse they shouldnt let that disrupt whatever they may already have. ~.~'

Named

11-14-2006, 10:50 AM

Somethings? Haha, my protest is that it is narrowminded and shallow in its entirety ;)

Though that certainly shouldn't stop people from answering it hypothetically. I'll just be on the sidelines to write fouls for those who take it further than that ;)
I jest! Jeez

badash

11-14-2006, 10:54 AM

Badash or Named... we just like to talk that all!!!

OK here goes.

Name; Liv Tyler

Look; Liv Tyler

Bank account; Liv... no wait Bill gates!!!

And she CANT stop thinking about me... what a woman!!!

JoshAries

11-14-2006, 11:00 AM

o.o' Liv Tyler is cute and all but I dont think I would want to date an actress. That'd be a bit annoying with paparrazi and all that jazz.

badash

11-14-2006, 11:03 AM

BUT I could handle all that, Id just give um what they want, Id do her on the front lawn and get into 4somes and everything, they would love it and... so would I!!!

JoshAries

11-14-2006, 11:33 AM

lol, but would she?

NarutoNineTails

11-14-2006, 01:36 PM

didn't read the whole thread yet but gonna answer the question anyway for now:

a girl who loves me for who I am...simple really. Both sides should be very comfortable with each other. I like my partners to be caring and intelligent too.

If she's pretty, great in bed, has a career...these don't hurt either. ;)

SRVG

11-14-2006, 02:48 PM

first of a ideal partner dose not exist just people that get close to it.

give me a normal ordenary cool smart girl that love to smile and dosnt care about being way popular ore not.

prefer brown hair blond is oke to.
any eye color.
glasses ore not dont care prefer not.

smart as hell but dosent give a fuck about alot of stuff.
she needs to have atleast a little atitude and dosent mind me doing stuff on my own. cause alot are obsessed.
ow and if she dose any kind of visual ore sound ART im totally into her.

Raki

11-14-2006, 04:02 PM

talented , energetic , maybe glasses but dont care , loving , caring , NOT THE BITCHY PERSON

Chidongan

11-14-2006, 04:06 PM

Raki

11-14-2006, 04:08 PM

named looks to much into a topic , its not the science convention -.-

SRVG

11-14-2006, 04:12 PM

named looks to much into a topic , its not the science convention -.-
your new :)
we dont know named in a different way.
and i like him for it :D

Chidongan

11-14-2006, 04:29 PM

your new :)
we dont know named in a different way.
and i like him for it :D

lol ditto. i = the love him. he makes my forum life so much more interesting. ^^

Azure Wrath

11-14-2006, 05:06 PM

same, its so fun to try and debate against named. he's very cool :P

anyway, i like NNT's idea; someone who loves you for who you are

NMK

11-14-2006, 05:16 PM

All that I desire is a girl with great personality, it wouldn't hurt if she had something in her head too. So I'd like if she wasn't all dumb. Good looks wouldn't hurt either.

superkhanh0

11-14-2006, 05:17 PM

i like down to earth funny chick, and talkative :D faithful i hate them playa chicks lol
and yes nice face and nice body wud b a plus

uchiha_melody

11-14-2006, 06:16 PM

ummm i have a boyfriend but...i wanna post here...dont sue me..or call me names kay >____>

My current Boyfriend i think is ideal well...not so ideal but meh okay hes:

1-Extremely funny
2-has a welsh accent XD
3-sort of likes anime but not too fond of the japs(he thinks there sick)
4-plays the guitar
5-a bit faggy and wears tightpants (huzzzuah!!score for melo!)
6-Extremely shy (he would have never made a move if i didn't XD)
7-friendly (maybe to friendly for his own good which causes him problems)
8-open minded
9-smart but not so dorky
10-has a myspace....XD

Chidongan

11-14-2006, 06:26 PM

5-a bit faggy and wears tightpants (huzzzuah!!score for melo!)

ahhahaa that's hilarious. ^^

well just adding on, that like other people, i do prefer i girl/women with a great personality, but truth be told she also has to look good. otherwise our 'relationship' wont go anywhere. but it's not gonna be one way, i'll improve myself for her too. ^^

animeking

11-14-2006, 08:13 PM

what i want i dont really know to be honest

height:I want a girl about my height (im 6'1) i guess its okay if she where to be shorter O_O

Personality:is nice,not bitchy,loves anime,has some liking to games,can be understanding, i want her to open minded, Smart ,loyal,someone who well support you and not leave you for something stupid, not a control freak,trust worthy,not a slut (i know there was more but i cant remember)

Age: exactly my age :)

hair:O_o blond is nice but i also like brunets its hard to choose i seem to like both hair colors ^^ i dont like red heads very much for some reason

body and face : i would simply want her to look cute ^^ i do want a nice slender body but not anorexic if possible

and yes i have never gone out or had a gf before lol and no it isnt because im to picky its because i dont go out much

Octo

11-14-2006, 08:19 PM

STD Clean and I'm happy.

Raki

11-14-2006, 08:57 PM

so you like anybody even Micheal Jackson?

Flyin

11-14-2006, 09:13 PM

Hey, if you wanna get yourself a sugar daddy, he's loaded!

JoshAries

11-14-2006, 11:27 PM

Yeah.. but he lives in the middle east now because everyone here is out to lynch him.

Lixie

11-14-2006, 11:35 PM

Respect, faith (belief in himself) and honesty.

And a sense of humor.

JoshAries

11-14-2006, 11:42 PM

Well... as for myself I dont know what I want in a girl... I know what I like concerning features and personality traits. But beyond that I can hardly say. But I suppose I'll state what I have on my mind. Which is physically I like shorter girls, not like below 5 feet because thats just seems weird... I generally like petite girls, brunettes though I love red heads too. Hah... I suppose if I had to say the bust size I'd have to say any size is fine so long as one isnt freakishly larger than the other xD For some reason Im not much for larger or husky women... mostly because I was stalked by one in high school for a time... *shiver* God... I thought I blocked that out of my mind.

As for personality traits... I need a girl who loves breakfast. Its my favorite meal of the day and I cant have a girl who hates breakfast ^.^' Also need someone willing to pull me off the couch to do something fun every so often. Hehe... I guess I need someone to cuddle with too.

Im a sappy bastard arent I?

Flyin

11-15-2006, 12:00 AM

Me too. But thats for relationships. I can go out for love and find it 8 days a week, but I can't be bothered to actually have a relationship. Too much work. Cakes song does a good picture for me.
Short Skirt Long Jacket - Cake

JoshAries

11-15-2006, 01:19 AM

well... unless you're friends or know them by reputation or something, one doesnt base their opinions of a person off the mind. It almost always starts with looks and thats something you cant really debate... er... successfully.

Flyin

11-15-2006, 01:29 AM

Ok, yes you can. Her name is Carolyne Savage. Women, you should all strive to look like her! Even if you have to be annorexic, belimic or w/e you psychos do.
I'd rather have a smart girl than a dumb one, but if there's no physical attraction, it would take a long long long time for anything to happen.

AK47

11-15-2006, 04:01 AM

cute, yet sexy.
intelligent and opiniated, but obedient to me(HAHAHAA jk)
shy, but demanding (so sexy!)

and they have to be a guy.
...
girls are good too

uchiha_melody

11-15-2006, 04:07 AM

cute, yet sexy.
intelligent and opiniated, but obedient to me(HAHAHAA jk)
shy, but demanding (so sexy!)

and they have to be a guy.
...

ZOMG.........your awesome on meh toplist XDDDD shy boys = teh smex <3

Chidongan

11-16-2006, 02:36 PM

cute, yet sexy.
intelligent and opiniated, but obedient to me(HAHAHAA jk)
shy, but demanding (so sexy!)

and they have to be a guy.
...
girls are good too

*winks at AK47*

besides that though. i'd also like a girl who understands me. or even if she doesn't understand me, she'd still listen to be rant on about what pisses me off. *sigh* <3

NarutoNineTails

11-16-2006, 03:12 PM

good luck finding a girl like that...it is usually the other way around. ;)

Azure Wrath

11-16-2006, 07:57 PM

good luck finding a girl like that...it is usually the other way around. ;)

True words of wisdom my friend, you are so right!
*high five*

deathwalkerchigrl

11-16-2006, 11:06 PM

I like bad boys, emo dude, or goths whic is about the sam as emo

V.VELDANEN

11-16-2006, 11:59 PM

I'd like to partner with someone of similiar qualities and background to me, also - loves to explore, cultured, eloquent in speech & behaviour and well-informed.

A well-balanced gal, shows how much she's responsible for herself. :P

superkhanh0

11-17-2006, 12:04 AM

yeaa i have a sayin in my country that
what ever u asked for u will get the opposite so the morral of the story is :D
ask for the worse and get it :D
i want a cruel, nasty, ugly chick :D

NarutoNineTails

11-17-2006, 12:06 AM

puhahaha...nice one...sry for the spam.

darkangelvampire

05-19-2007, 02:34 AM

IDEAL MAN

hair:dark bout ear length
eyes:green or blue
body:not hairy and not too muscular and not to wimpy
personality:punk/skater romantic humor acts like a retard every now and then lol

Lukasz

05-19-2007, 02:39 AM

ideal partner

body
cannot be heavier than me
and taller
and since it is ideal: boobs can't be big. especially on short girl
that is kind it

personality
smart, funny, like sometimes stupid stuff, enjoy life.

BBRS

05-19-2007, 02:40 AM

azure?..........

DBZWarrior6582

05-19-2007, 03:20 AM

I agree with BBRS, I'll take Azure over any girl, LOL.

Yeah I am already after my perfect girl, and hopefully it will work out for me.

Azure Wrath

05-19-2007, 08:17 AM

azure?..........

I agree with BBRS, I'll take Azure over any girl, LOL.

Yeah I am already after my perfect girl, and hopefully it will work out for me.

i lvoe you guys

Lukasz

05-19-2007, 08:39 AM

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Azure Wrath

05-22-2007, 04:53 AM

http://www.the-earchives.com/scripts/download.asp?id=8162

shit, forgot about you lukasz... you'd also be an ideal partner! anyone on NC would be! <3

tsunade ^_^

05-22-2007, 05:00 AM

oipotty

05-22-2007, 07:40 AM

cute, funny, smart, not too tall, or short

Lukasz

05-22-2007, 07:45 AM

jeebuz whats with all you guys getting physical? What happened to substance? Doesnt that matter anymore! My gran used to tell me that you should pick a partner with whom you will still be able to sit on the porch at the age of 60 and can have a good and proper conversation. Everyones tits and ass sag over time but conversation never dies!!!

true but we are talking about ideal partner
with who you would have great conversation and lots of fun until the grim reaper appears
and whose body will make your pants wet

oipotty

05-22-2007, 07:55 AM

speak the truth lukasz!!!!

MrUseless

05-22-2007, 09:51 AM

I've already met and lost my Ideal partner... here is some stuff on her

height: 5'5
Hair: Dark brown, straight, shoulder length
Eyes: Hazel
Bust: C-34

More importantly...
Personality: Smart, Funny, a little ditsy, likes to play jokes, isn't too much of a "lady", friendly, can hold her own drinking...

oipotty

05-22-2007, 01:23 PM

in my school, its "wrong" to date a girl taller than you. thats just insane, wat do u guys think?

MrUseless

05-22-2007, 01:59 PM

in my school, its "wrong" to date a girl taller than you. thats just insane, wat do u guys think?

well, I don't think height matters really... if a girl is taller than you, so what?

Some people just prefer to see males taller... I guess its subconcious dominance of some kind...

oipotty

05-22-2007, 02:04 PM

ok,

i would like a gal with this kinda personality+apperance
medium size everything
smart
caring
cute
nice
friendly
motherly
happy
easy temper
and easy to talk to

MrUseless

05-22-2007, 02:09 PM

I would like to add something else...

someone who doesn't need constant attention and can let me go off on my own for a while, someone who I can trust, and can trust me.

Trust is very important in any relationship - it is the foundation for most of your future together, if you can't trust someone, even if you try, you probably shouldn't be together ;)

Flyin

05-23-2007, 01:03 AM

Ideal - Somebody I can connect with and spend time with.
Looks aren't important, they really are just for show, after all, we're talking partners, not **** buddies.

tsunade ^_^

05-25-2007, 05:53 AM

There you go! Thats more like it!
aaw you guys are so kawai

1.M

05-25-2007, 08:12 AM

(Inner Self: I HATE BUGS/INSECTS! Well, not all of them, just the ones that pick on me!!!! O.O)

Ideal Partner

Age: Two years younger - eight years older (Max)

(Physical Attributes)

Hair: - N/A - (Inner Self: But something black, or out of place scores more points.)

Eyes: -N/A - (Inner Self: But the most I can hope is that they compliment his hair.)

(Body Structure:) - N/A - (Inner Self: if he's chunky I don't mind, but if my fingertips can't even get around him, that's too big for me. If he's thin, and lanky I can't really say I don't care because every man is suppose to have some display of strength. However, if he does this on his own, and it just doesn't register on his body that's fine too.)

(Height:) - N/A - (Inner Self: Men who are taller than me make me feel cute, and cuddly, (or just what THEY need) but a guy my height or a bit shorter wouldn't bother me, because at least then I could be certain of where they're looking. My Height: 5'1")

(The Gear:) -N/A - (Inner Self: I believe all women are good children bearers, but they can't do it alone, a man takes part of it as well. However no matter what science says I think that if the woman is pleased she will bear children in no time. But I know for a fact no woman (unless they love their man that much, like me and spoils them with white lies.) is satisfied unless the performance is a long and enjoyable one. Getting kinky in the slightest way helps too, and scores a bit more points.)

(Personality) - N/A (Inner Self: A man for me doesn't have to be completely understanding, just as long as he's protective, and picks up his cue on my signal. A man for me does not have to be completely honest - if there's things you want to leave out, go right ahead. I only ask for them not to be something YOU think will bother ME, I'm not an average girl I can forgive a man for at least 2-5 cheats.

That, and don't expect me to be around a lot, if I'm going somewhere, and you decide not to come I got one phrase for ya - bye, be back later!

Also I feel a man doesn't have to be a genius just because his eventual place in a house is at the head of the table - no I can't stand those types who smother themselves with their own "goodness" just because they have/had a few more years of schooling than me. My man is best when he teaches me, not lectures.

Plus my man has to pick up on moods - you know surrounding moods, like in movie scenes where you know that person's gonna die. - knowing when to party and when to work hardy gets you somewhere.

another thing men are suppose to be enjoyable, make everyone laugh, and laugh back as well, but if you're the shy type I don't care just let me help. Believe in me, and tell me if you don't enjoy someone's company I can get rid of them. I'm not saying I can cure cancer, but heck I know how to stop you from giving birth to a baby through a straw. (take away the sweets of course - not that you pervs!)

Besides from all this, I think the key to winning ANY girl's heart is drawing her in with complete original content - be you, talk about yourself, your life anything YOU. Even if one day you decide you want to have a conversation about the bedroom, don't worry we're listening in our own way, because deep down we're thinking the same thing.)

samnas

05-25-2007, 08:26 AM

1.M

05-25-2007, 08:31 AM

^ You took your time, i was waiting for this for a long time ... BTW your inner self speaks too much ... and yeah i m an alien also ... I hope you can find your ideal partner with such attributes although its difficult to get this much in one person ... keep trying *Gunbate*

For my ideal partner, it should be somebody I can happily spend my time with ...

See how simple it was to describe our ideal partner ...

Short and simple, I understand. ^_^ However my Inner Self speaks for me, when I am in poor moods and such. In addition it IS only "ideal" a sort of fairy tale character. If I were a witch I would conjure him up, and destroy him over, and over again. All in order to prove how wicked I am.

On another note, I don't believe in looking for such people, why bother when there could be a room filled with blissful people.

samnas

05-25-2007, 08:39 AM

Short and simple, I understand. ^_^ However my Inner Self speaks for me, when I am in poor moods and such. In addition it IS only "ideal" a sort of fairy tale character. If I were a witch I would conjure him up, and destroy him over, and over again. All in order to prove how wicked I am.
Never say that if you were a witch, i (everyone) like as you are now ...
On another note, I don't believe in looking for such people, why bother when there could be a room filled with blissful people.
By the word room do you mean this NC forums ... just a guess though ...

Lukasz

05-25-2007, 08:47 AM

ideal partner should stay with me no matter what.

never met any person like that

1.M

05-25-2007, 08:53 AM

Never say that if you were a witch, i (everyone) like as you are now ...

I understand. However I meant to say if I possessed witch like powers.

By the word room do you mean this NC forums ... just a guess though ...

Among many others, yes. ^_^

samnas

05-25-2007, 08:59 AM

I understand. However I meant to say if I possessed witch like powers.Never say possessed also ... :mad:

Among many others, yes. ^_^Then am I included in those blissful people ...

1.M

05-25-2007, 09:05 AM

Never say possessed also ... :mad:

I don't follow.

Then am I included in those blissful people ...

I would think so, unless you are not blissful.

samnas

05-25-2007, 09:08 AM

I don't follow.
Its good that you dont follow ...
I would think so, unless you are not blissful.
Dont you think that my posts are full of blissfullness ...

1.M

05-25-2007, 09:10 AM

Dont you think that my posts are full of blissfullness ...

I suppose so.

samnas

05-25-2007, 09:11 AM

I suppose so.
Arigatou, hountoni arigatou ...

Thankyou very much ...

1.M

05-25-2007, 09:21 AM

Arigatou, hountoni arigatou ...

Thankyou very much ...

Not at all.

Lukasz

05-25-2007, 09:56 AM

Get

A

F***ing

Room

In

A

Love

Hotel!!

samnas

05-25-2007, 10:00 AM

Get

A

F***ing

Room

In

A

Love

Hotel!!

Hell, how could you say this, even i didn't ...

Lukasz

05-25-2007, 10:01 AM

get a room

and used it properly.

samnas

05-25-2007, 10:03 AM

AAHHHH!!!

*running here and there in my room*

Kristi

03-27-2008, 11:52 AM

Hm..lets see..to start off my ideal partner physically would be tall and slender (he doesnt hafta be a giant lol just taller than me,but u kno the taller the better :p) eye color i dont really have a preference for, green if anything i guess lol, i guess ethnically white or asian, but again, it all depends on the individual, and hey love is colorblind :) i also love boys w.longer or edgy cut hair, i think its so hot..and ofcourse..blonde boys! @.@ hehe..on the inside i would want my guy to be my best friend, he would be smart, funny (i love funny guys, im always laughing) and sweet, hed also treat my family nicely and most importantly learn to give me space and freedom to have a life that does NOT revolve around him, i HATE when a guy is clingy and suffocating, it makes u lose sight of who you are, and im really not into gift giving and superficial relationships. Finally, hed hafta respect me as a woman and all of my feminist ideas :p

spacecadet319

03-27-2008, 01:54 PM

she has to have a fat ass and big tits (not too big), she has to smoke weed and drink. She shouldnt be too religious and has to be independent (meaning not dependant too much on her parents or me). It would also be nice if we can talk about shit other than how her day went and wat she bought at the mall.

letsrock0303

03-27-2008, 02:33 PM

Physically: I don't want her to be within 30 pounds of my weight (I am 6'3 that isn't askin too much). That's about it, I have found girls of all ethnicities that are beautiful so that doesn't mean much to me

Mentally: She has the be able to actually hold up a conversation. Has to have at least a decent degree of intelligence (the smarter the better). She can't get all pissy if I don't call her for a few hours or if I'm busy doing other stuff. And most of all I would love to find an anime/manga fan lol. I am so sick of girls rolling there eyes at me when I say I am gonna go read Naruto. Ambitious, optimistic, and kind are also important factors.

Karin<3

03-27-2008, 03:01 PM

dead....i could keep her looking young and preserve forever...with a fountain sprayed on her youth forever.... that or anything below 11 would do *thumbs up*

AK47

03-27-2008, 04:39 PM

well if your ideal partner is a description similar to my profile information ... :):)

nitestalker666

03-27-2008, 04:51 PM

well if your ideal partner is a description similar to my profile information ... :):)

Funny you should mention it...I just happen to be one who likes to read a fu**ing book. I surely am not a fu**ing c*nt, and the beach is awesome.

I don't like eggnog or lobster, but we can work past that. Hmmm...I suppose us both being guys would be a problem. However, once we get past that and enjoy gay sex then it'll be perfect!! LOL :p

:focus: I have my ideal partner already. She wasn't what I had always thought of physically, but she's still quite attractive to me and has a great personality. Similar sense of humor, likes some anime, quite enjoys metal music and sci-fi movies. We both enjoy the beach and similar foods. I'd say I hit the jackpot finally and no longer have to worry about crazy liar girlfriends who whore themselves out to my "friends" behind my back, haha.

ihc

03-27-2008, 06:05 PM

I'm not sure how to describe my 'ideal partner'. I kind of don't care, not really looking for certain things. Guess I will just have to wait and see who pops up. :/

Katzyn

03-27-2008, 07:50 PM

Grey and white hair, white/pink skin, soft nose, rough pink tongue...Loooong tail, white paws.

Follows me everywhere, talks to me about my day. <3 Freaks out if I go away.

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y28/Gaaraskatzyn/Other/IMG_2411.jpg

Yup, he's purrrrrfect. <3

WalkingFish

03-27-2008, 08:07 PM

Hieght: 5''3
Body: Athletic
Hair: long sometimes short if they look good with it any color
Eyes: Don't matter
Ethnicity: don't matter
Bust: regular
Ass: really dont give a shit
Personality: Kind and Fun (no straight up bitches)

Dream Catcher

03-27-2008, 08:08 PM

Hmm ideal partner... someone i get along with :D lol

spacecadet319

03-27-2008, 08:43 PM

Grey and white hair, white/pink skin, soft nose, rough pink tongue...Loooong tail, white paws.

Follows me everywhere, talks to me about my day. <3 Freaks out if I go away.

thats mad beastiality

Katzyn

03-27-2008, 08:48 PM

thats mad beastiality

Not really. I'm not sexually attracted to my kitten (ew, it feels gross to even have to say that...), he's juts my ideal type of partner ("partner" does not always refer to "lover"). <3 I'd rather live with him, alone, than any man or woman I've ever met.

:focus: I have my ideal partner already. She wasn't what I had always thought of physically, but she's still quite attractive to me and has a great personality. Similar sense of humor, likes some anime, quite enjoys metal music and sci-fi movies. We both enjoy the beach and similar foods. I'd say I hit the jackpot finally and no longer have to worry about crazy liar girlfriends who whore themselves out to my "friends" behind my back, haha.

I enjoy talking to her, too. =D

Dream Catcher

03-27-2008, 08:50 PM

thats mad beastiality

HAHAH hell yeah it is !

Freaky Deaky !!

006

03-27-2008, 10:31 PM

@lol at Kat, kitteh!! <3

Hieght: 5'6 ^
Body: Athletic, smooth skin :0
Hair: W/e
Eyes: Brown or bluish
Ethnicity: don't matter
Bust: Regular-Large :P
Ass: Get it right, get it tight!!
Personality: Fuuny, Kind.. Domeone who will talk to me about anything and that I can trust.

But ey, what are the chances of me ever getting that lucky? xD

spacecadet319

03-27-2008, 10:36 PM

ur chances are pretty good considering the ever growing population of this cesspool we like to call earth.

estranged

03-28-2008, 02:32 AM

lolol. katzyn could make some serious cash (i chose to ignore your second post)

as for the topic: my right hand <3
never leaves my (right) side *tear

deathwalkerchigrl

07-03-2008, 02:43 PM

i would say a guy named Eric, taller than me, like emo/screamo/alternative music, has a lip piercing, longish hair, a little on the emo side, likes me for me, and extremely hot!!!!!!! A.K.A. my bf!

Arty

07-03-2008, 03:08 PM

A pretty strong individual.

Note the fact that its not a born trait.

Dream Catcher

07-03-2008, 06:30 PM

my ideal partner is a gal who is down to earth, spontaneous but not hyper 24/7. Don't really care about hair color or any of that stuff. Not fat. Enjoys sports or any physical activity.

Random and weird, but something I can relate too. Our weirdness has to click, otherwise it's just ... weird HAH
Can carry a normal conversation and has a sense or right and wrong and has morals and can think for herself. NOT stubborn.

Umm... don't care if she's short or tall.

Owenotto

07-03-2008, 11:01 PM

Umm, my ideal partner would be... To be simple, she's cute and likes football....

deathwalkerchigrl

07-04-2008, 07:36 PM

That's simple. for me being simple is a guy that's nice and goodlooking

Tazuwukei

08-27-2008, 04:07 AM

My ideal partner would be someone who doesn't smoke, excessively drink, or do drugs. Someone who has little or no interest in sex and merely wants to be best friends with me. Someone who's quiet and easygoing for the most part, loves simple things, and has at least some similar interests to myself.

Someone who's also an artist, and favorably at the same level as myself, or greater. Someone I would love to impress, furthering my own skills while doing so. If they weren't an artist, they would have to have a level of respect for my work, but not be in love with my work! This would annoy me greatly being with a fan of mine all the time.

Someone who's patient, intelligent, equal or accepting religious beliefs and not trying to force their beliefs upon me. Someone that isn't touchy, clingy, manipulative, egotistical, arrogant, or obnoxious.

Someone who's somewhat distant, respectful, sensitive, and caring! Someone comfortable with a lot of silence, and open-minded! Someone creative and thoughtful. Someone who doesn't want to go out much because they're absorbed in whatever it is they do.

A healthy eater, someone dependable and employed. Someone who has good personal hygene and preferably doesn't smell horrid. Someone who isn't too popular.

I don't care about physical appearance, or physical features, skin color, or anything along those lines. Personality & interests are almost everything for me.

tsunade ^_^

08-27-2008, 10:43 AM

What I'm about to say is x-rated. So my bad. And apologies. hehe

Ive realised that ones Ideal partner must be uber good in the sack because if theres error, the whole relationship is fooooooked

estranged

08-27-2008, 01:31 PM

wow somebody censor that post quick

Karin<3

08-27-2008, 02:34 PM

Omg censor it think of the children !

ACPRO

08-27-2008, 02:37 PM

what about bambi?

tsunade ^_^

08-27-2008, 05:13 PM

Omg censor it think of the children !

ZOMG dont be ghay. The children on here arent by far as "young" as they claim
The children Ive met on here is more matured than alot of adults on NC and other random people
I have come across

Erosannin

08-27-2008, 08:33 PM

Above... but much MUCH younger and dumberER... *wink wink*

purrrrrrrr..... <3

ACPRO

08-27-2008, 08:36 PM

The children on here arent by far as "young" as they claim
The children Ive met on here is more matured than alot of adults on NC and other random people
I have come across

YouVr GoTzxz PenizORz RoFL. VaGiNAs ArE 4 NooBzzorz!

but seriously life partner cant be a bitch

deathwalkerchigrl

08-27-2008, 10:15 PM

he has to be nice!

DesecratioN

08-29-2008, 06:42 AM

If I knew what I found ideal then would I not be the solitary person I am ?...

I'll let fae throw me a curve ball and hope it doesn't turn out to be a wild pitch that smacks me in the face...

estranged

08-29-2008, 10:51 AM

Steel Paladin

08-31-2008, 09:21 PM

my partner would be nice cool & intresting

Anthony Uchiha

09-01-2008, 07:27 AM

My Ideal Partner. Just cool. both on the inside and the outside

DesecratioN

09-01-2008, 08:43 AM

my ideal partner would be an individualist like me.

i don't care for romantic relationships, though.
i'd hump other women even if i were in a relationship, and imo we should be able to do that openly, without having to use the term "cheating". fuck convention

Out of curiosity what would be the purpose of even considering said relation a partner and not just ah colleague?

Folks (like the few above me) if you are to contribute fill in with something more then vague and obscenely generic responses.

estranged

09-01-2008, 08:58 AM

Out of curiosity what would be the purpose of even considering said relation a partner and not just ah colleague? it could work in theory, although i've never tried it =D
and i presented the idea to a friend of mine (who is way more experienced in relationships), and she agrees with me.

basically it will be just like any other romantic relationship, but without the controlling nature of both individuals. if one has sex with another man/woman, fine, it's his/her own choice, as long as both parties understand that it isn't emotionally relevant to either of them, and it doesn't change their feelings towards each other (considering they are quite emotionally attached).

i hope that was enough of an explanation D=
if you still don't get it, then i probably can't elaborate on it well enough.