That crazy thing called LOVE

[King Vamp]

Hello, lets talk about love. It's weird. It's different. So tell some of your story's. NOTHING EXPLICIT PLEASE.

Heres my experinse...


1st GF - She was Hot, but it was a long distance relationship.

2nd GF - She was a CRAZY PERSON

3rd GF - I just meet her yesterday.

[AK47]

i just love my mom
it's a pretty nice relationship
oh and i forgot drunkenmaster rock lee

[ZrAeNiAn]

age 15-17 : great girl who cheated on me i find out later.

age 18-20 a girl who broke up with me cause i did the stupidest thing you could imagine to her.

21 great girl who stopped loving me

22.... just started and all is wonderfull ^^

-Zr-

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

13-16: Had a nice, cool and pretty girl but it just wasn't workin at end.

17: Had a girl, tried to have another one at the same time.
P.S.:Both girls were friends(yes I know, it was stupid but I couldn't resist, both were so hot)

Now: In an incredible relationship with AK47

[AK47]

well i had a relationship when i was 12
it was like a longdistance relationship
she was very scrawny and she just couldn't stop loving me
i just had to let go .. you know what i mean?
i am in a very empty relationship right now cuz there are like 5 hot asians in my school who are only in gr 11 and 12 i'm in 10
right now i'm in a relationship with jessica alba and drunken master rock lee

[Canthinkofaname]

currently im 12 so nothing real serious
but in fifth grade when i was 11 i had a gf (we never actually did anything we just talked bout stuff and everyone in the fifth grade always talked about gfs and bfs and going out and crap) but i moved schools so i dont see here at all anymore

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Sad story youngster, maybe she was the love of ur life.

[Canthinkofaname]

nope

[AK47]

i saw a thing called love at school
i saw two couples that were lesbian
one was emo and one was threesome-ugly
i saw a group of weirdos and when i was microwaving my lunch i eavesdropped and these boys were daring to kill each other
weird
at least they happy w/ their love life

[badash]

age 18-20 a girl who broke up with me cause i did the stupidest thing you could imagine to her.

-Zr-

You didnt.... take a pass her mom did ya -Zr- :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o


Thats the most stupid thig ya could have done :lol:

[DJ Jaime]

Ehrm.. This is weird... I'm not in love right now, but I like -Edited- :oops:

[kjrav]

I was in several relationships between 6-8 but all ended for stupid S**t.

[KageNaruto]

eh.... i has several relationships with some girls but it was kinda like in between friend and girlfriend(at least from my point of view). i kinda like somebody now and am hoping to eventually ask her out

[Octo]

I had one girlfriend for a week and a half, but it was peer pressure and I really wanted it to end, she broke it off because I did nothing.

Ok at this exact moment, I'm a bloody romantic and hate it. 6 girls IN relationships have told me when their relationships end they're gonna date me.

I like one girl right now, I've told her but she's currently interested in another guy so I'm playing the good friend role for awhile.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Hey, I know you think that being her good friend for her now might be to best to do in your opinion right now but it's not, believe I've done it a lot of times and it doesn't work. When you get to be her good friend or confident, you'll never move from that opinion in her mind. Sure of it 100%. What you wish would happen won't cause when they'll talk about you in the future, they'll say things like ''I see as my brother''. I know it might sound cliche, but you got to do the indifferent guy, you don't care a lot but at the same time, you gotta care a lil for her to think you are still friend with her, that you feelin her. Anyway, hope it help you, no i'm not the date doctor or Hitch(LOL,just kidding).

[Katzyn]

I've been in love before...My first love, in 6th grade, ashed me out, and I said yes...we dated for a couple of moths, then I dumped him....I was bored, I think...v_v...anyway, he hated me after that...then, last year, he started going to my high school, and I realized that I missed him and he was my first love...So I went to talk to him, hoping he wasn't still mad.

It was bad...I went to say hi, and he looked at me like I was crazy. It broke my heart...So I turned away...later that day, I asked a friend who knew him, what was wrong with him.

She told me he had lost a lot of his memories in a car accident. He has completely forgotten me, and all of our good memeories are gone form his mind....I am the only one who remembers now...

Thankfully, I don't see him anymore...I think it would kill me if I saw him again...

[King Vamp]

The one I'm in now just started and she has not called me yet..... :( :( :cry: :cry: :cry:

[Octo]

Hey, I know you think that being her good friend for her now might be to best to do in your opinion right now but it's not, believe I've done it a lot of times and it doesn't work. When you get to be her good friend or confident, you'll never move from that opinion in her mind. Sure of it 100%. What you wish would happen won't cause when they'll talk about you in the future, they'll say things like ''I see as my brother''. I know it might sound cliche, but you got to do the indifferent guy, you don't care a lot but at the same time, you gotta care a lil for her to think you are still friend with her, that you feelin her. Anyway, hope it help you, no i'm not the date doctor or Hitch(LOL,just kidding).

Agreed 100% with most girls, but you don't know emo girls. I love me emo and goth, seeing as I am both.

I'm somewhat what you said, I'm not her best friend, nor do I hang out with her constantly.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Katzyn, are you serious, it might sound gay, but the poor guy, that's a sad story.

[Katzyn]

Katzyn, are you serious, it might sound gay, but the poor guy, that's a sad story.
Yeah...I felt so bad last year when I saw him again, then found out about his accident...I was so guilty for just leaving him like that...I felt...like trash....But...at least he doesn't remember the hatred he had for me....

[superkhanh0]

lol i feel u,
13-14 i had a korean gf she was hot but she had to move
16-17 vietnamese gf shes hot but she live too far away from me , we only see each other on the weekends
18 currently free dun want any gf

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

and why is that?

[AK47]

*whisper*- cuz he is gay

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

That was my first thought but no prejudice, maybe the guy has his reasons.

[KageNaruto]

Katzyn, are you serious, it might sound gay, but the poor guy, that's a sad story.
Yeah...I felt so bad last year when I saw him again, then found out about his accident...I was so guilty for just leaving him like that...I felt...like trash....But...at least he doesn't remember the hatred he had for me....

wow... that is a sad story :(

[Hellchild915]

Love was invented by the devil

[Z3r0]

just broke up with my last gf :( we went out for 1 year and like 3 months... love does stink... no more dating for me unitl im married

[pandora666]

18-19 Had a relationship with the most beatiful woman i have ever seen for about 3 and a half months.We were (and still are but that's another story...)
students in the same academy class(even same semester),and she lived near the academy.At first I thought she was the one(and even now I still don't know),she fell in love with me,things got unbelievably screwed up,and we seperated.Then the most horrible cliche of all "Let's be just friends".
Guys,that NEVER happens.

20 Had another relationship with another girl,which was really pretty and really sweet.We fitted in everything(listened to the same music,saw the same movies and anime,had the same opinions about anything,we made each other laugh all the time,had the same sensitivities,sex was unbelievable...),then about 3 months later we stopped seeing each other cause she had some problems(not with me).And 8 months later I still haven't seen her.

21 Really depressed,unmotivated to do anything with any other girl,with no interest in any girls I see or are close to me,wondering if I can ever feel something close to what I felt with the other two girls ever again.

Any thoughts on tis one??

[King Vamp]

Trust me someone will come along. When I gave up on finding love. Love found me.

[aki_san]

13-16: Had a nice, cool and pretty girl but it just wasn't workin at end.

17: Had a girl, tried to have another one at the same time.
P.S.:Both girls were friends(yes I know, it was stupid but I couldn't resist, both were so hot)

Now: In an incredible relationship with AK47i feel your pain :) other then the AK47 thing.. somethings wrong there...

[imported_Greenlitflag]

Love was invented by the devil

Agreed, lol.
Right now, I'm out of shawshank but uh... we'll see...

[KageNaruto]

love was created by good and evil combined to its highest extent

[superkhanh0]

*whisper*- cuz he is gay
woah dude wth
i dun want one cuz i dun want to go through all the thing again , i wanna stay single flirt around and have fun for now
notice i say FOR NOW

[ZrAeNiAn]

Then the most horrible cliche of all "Let's be just friends".
Guys,that NEVER happens.




I know that story all to well, however with my ex-gf im still good friends.

-Zr-

[V.VELDANEN]

16: No record
17: No record
18: A sweet quiet girl
19: The same sweet but not so quiet girl
20: The same but not so sweet and not so quiet girl

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

LOL, it evolved in to quite a girl from the begining to the end.

[Hellchild915]

Love was invented by the devil

Agreed, lol.
Right now, I'm out of shawshank but uh... we'll see...

Love is the cause of all mortal sins

[ColdFire]

Few for me, only one really mattered. After 2 1/2 or so years, she hadta move...13 hours away, so that really sucked. Since then havent really been interested in anyone too much, if I dont get the same feeling with someone as before, I figure why even try it :/ Kinda like what pandora was saying.

[gerbster11]

I had a girlfriend for like 3 years, and then broke up with her. she begged me take her back so i did, and then she dumped me like a week later. LOL( she was psycho lke that)

since then i just casually date until i find girl who aint all crazy.

[retsam]

Love is the cause of all mortal sins


Love is also the cause of man's greatest hopes and inspirations.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

yes you are right retsam, we can complain and say things on women and love, but we just can't enough of them, we need them and we all know it.

[King Vamp]

YEAH!! I GET TO SEE MY GF TOMORROW!!!!

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

ok...god for you dude, good luck and don't choke,lol.

[King Vamp]

I'm only so happy because I have not talked to here for 7 days....I never got her #. :oops:

[badash]

But ya know... we have only covered 1 aspect of love really,


Is there not SO much more about it???

[AK47]

love is like a drink
you drink your drink and it's gone
and you pour in a new drink and you drink it and it's gone
and then you eat a banana.......
seriously i laughed at my own joke

[aki_san]

lol :lol:
its stupid but funny at the same time.

[AK47]

Love is like an apple tree
love is small like the embryo of the tree
and then it keeps on growing and growing
and then you make apples which is the poop

[Hellchild915]

LOVE IS THE THING THAT WILL DESTROY MANY LIFE'S(mine) and ULTIMATELY DESTROY THE WORLD

[aki_san]

well there are some movies like that -.-

[Hellchild915]

LOVE IS THE CRUELEST THING ON EARTH

[aki_san]

then why r u married -.-

[AK47]

what do you think
he hated his wife and married her!?!?!
no he married her and then hated his wife cuz they made a bastard child...
u feel me~

[Hellchild915]

ahahahahahahahah I never said i didnt know how to love I was just saying what I believe love is and what it will mean to me when i grow up

[aki_san]

lmao i feel bad for my sis
hellchild how coul you hate your wife man?

[graff]

Love is the cause of all mortal sins


Love is also the cause of man's greatest hopes and inspirations.

agreed. i can honestly say that had it not been for love i would not have become an artist or a poet. and i can also honestly say that if i hadnt gotten my heart broken stepped on shattered and shatted on i probably wouldnt be in art or as good of an artist as i am today.

my sex life and relationship life are well...let just say different ive had alot more success in one then the other...and no im not a man whore in fact compared to alot of guys im very very very tame.

ive been in love with 3 girls. but honestly only one matters and that was my last gf kasia (beautiful name right...now just imagine that name personified into the greatest beauty that you can think of). she was my equal in everything....and i mean it. in art literature general knowledge. we were perfect together. well ive always been close with my x gfs in fact the one of the girls that i was in love with is my best friend atm. and kasia didnt like that. rana the girl who is my best friend and i would hang out like id say once a week nothing big just chill and talk like at a park or something. well one day rana tells me that shes still in love with me and would do anything to be with me. i blatantly said no and that i cant chill with you until you get this shit setteled. well she did get it setteled and we started hanging out again. kasia strait up said look its not that i dont trust you but i dont trust her...i dont want you to hang out with her. and i understood. well rana called me crying one day cause her x bf had hit her in the face and she didnt know who to call so she called me. i called kasia and said that i was going to spend the night at my best friend andrews house and we were probably going to go tagging. well i actually spent the night at her house just talking with her and telling her that i would just be there for her and all. well i hadnt told andrew that i had told her that i was spending the night. so she called him cause my phone was turned off. long story shortened she found out from him that i was at her house and was spending the night and she ended it.....but if you want to hear the end of it let me know cause this is long....lets just say it involves lies on her part and a pregnancy.

[AK47]

oh
that is pretty tragic man
i have nothing to cheer u up with
you got her pregnant?

[Hellchild915]

I personaly dont hate love its just I know that I will never be with the girl I really want to be with, I have had crushes before and little flings but I have never had a crush like this, I see this girl at school and talk to her but I always know that we will just be friends and if I admit I like her I will have my heart broken and will lose a good friend

[graff]

supposedly yeah but thats not even the worst part. well she lied about a bunch of little things stuff that honestly didnt matter to me except for one. she said that she started her period....so i was like ok so now theres definatley no chance of us getting back together...she said probably not. keep in mind i know that ALL OF THIS is my fault. 2 weeks later she calls me out of the blue crying saying thatill hate her. well i talked her into telling me and she lied to me about telling me she started her period she had an abortion.....she then told me how shes telling me because she wants me back.....

i simply hung up the phone and havent talked to her again.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

What hellchild, the way you talk about it it's like you say you gonna have a wife or nothin and you won't love in the future.

[pandora666]

What hellchild, the way you talk about it it's like you say you gonna have a wife or nothin and you won't love in the future.
That's not the point at all.
Hellchild,if you wanna tell her how you feel just do it,or else you are gonna regret it for the rest of your life.Don't be afraid of what she's gonna say,cause whatever she feels about you,if she's really a worthy person to be with you,she will understand.Whatever the case,you will have gained a little more courage and experience for future situations.Trust me I know.

And graff,your case is 10 times as @#$%& up as mine,so I shouldn't be the one complaining.What can I say,I admire your courage!Good luck,you probably will need it in the future.

[Hellchild915]

yeah I was thinking of doing it this weekend when we go to a party she will be at

and yeah graff has some Fu**** up shit

[graff]

yeah but sall good now you konw im not gonna say im over it but im dealing with it and living. thats a hard thing to deal with because of my personal beliefs.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

But you did call her back since, right?

[graff]

ummmm....NO. I wouldnt know what to say. and im not quite sure that i do have anything to say to her. i mean i still care about her deeply....but you guys have no idea what that did to me.

[pandora666]

Yeah,that's the kind of thing that messes up your whole life...but you can't really help it some times.Could you go back and change things you did in the past?No.Can you say for sure that even if you changed them things would be better now?Still no.So,you just go on living.That's all you can do

[graff]

Yeah,that's the kind of thing that messes up your whole life...but you can't really help it some times.Could you go back and change things you did in the past?No.Can you say for sure that even if you changed them things would be better now?Still no.So,you just go on living.That's all you can do

thats exactly the way i see it. but it hasnt ruined my life just greatly affected it

to all those who haven't fiddled wit hlove, do not tis the biggest waste of time and money an dhinderenc eto ones own true potential imaginable.

Love is a waste , you do not need others what you need is yourself, its not who you know that matters, its who knows you.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

You really depress me desecrenation, and graff, even if it's tough, think a lil about her, yes what she did was dumb and all, but must she feel now, she is all alone to live that situation and it's the moment of her life she might need you the most to go through with it.

[King Vamp]

My GF was not there...I was going to this youth group thing.... :cry: :cry: :cry:

[Hellchild915]

to all those who haven't fiddled wit hlove, do not tis the biggest waste of time and money an dhinderenc eto ones own true potential imaginable.

Love is a waste , you do not need others what you need is yourself, its not who you know that matters, its who knows you.

Couldnt of said it better

[V.VELDANEN]

Love doesn't affect you nor does it ruin one's life. It simply defines who you are now...

[AK47]

i "love" your new avatar v.valdanen
i "love" watching tv
i "love" to bathe in rose petals and herbs
i "love" wearing thongs on happy occasions

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Ah! That's my man! I'd love to see you and a bath of roses and all Ak.

[Brock-lee]

For some reason i'm pictureing Ichigo in the bathtub while Rock lee watches on...

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Yes and you like it don't you perv.

[AK47]

me and my friends were walking in the hallways and we saw this couple making out hard
so i started to make some noises myself and they stopped
why did they stop? aren't they in love ? shouldn't they have continued their loving?
wth am i saying
it was funny cuz i told my friends to pretend to make out with me to tease the couple, and then my friends were like "wtf man?"

[King Vamp]

Yeah!! I have a date with My GF on Sunday!! Were going to see Scary Movie 4!

EDIT: nevermind... :cry:

[graff]

what happened vamp

[King Vamp]

She could not go she had to go to here Dads. I REALLY wonted to go...

[imported_Aizen-diacho]

when i wa slike 12 it was this one girl that i liked and we were going out for like the last 2 months of school and my stupid lil ass cousin likes here too and she plays with him he was like 8 and she was 11 so nothing could have happened but for osme reason he thought she liked him and he was like she don't go out with you no more so me being me i wanted him to feel real stupid so i called her and made him talk to her and like 3 mins after he ran off with tears in his eyes and then when i was talking to her she was mad cause i did that to him and thne her brother was on the other end listening and the next day she broke up with me :oops: :oops: and she moved away to trinidad :oops: :oops: i got dozens of stories for ya come see the love doctor if ya boys need help

[badash]

She could not go she had to go to here Dads. I REALLY wonted to go...

Scary Movie 4... Sorry for ya vamp pal BUT the bright side is ya didn't have to see Scary Movie 4 :D

[King Vamp]

I seen Scary Movie 4. Thats was a funny movie. It's ok because we are MOST LIKELY going to see American Haunting this Saturday.

[superkhanh0]

:D nice dude why dont yall see sum romantic movies :D like notebook lol

[Hime_sama]

notebook! such a beautiful romantic movie! even guys enjoy it!!!

i'm so mad pride and prejudice has hit the movie theaters here! :cry:
i already saw it like 10 times, but i want to watch it at the movies!!! grrrr.... now that's a love story!!! i'm having a blast learning the soundtrack! great piano performance!!!

[Hellchild915]

I hate the notebook I have watch it like 3 time in theaters my friend made me go and my sister made me go and then the week after that another friend asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with her and when I got there she told me we were watching the notebook I almost left but I did want to be mean

[King Vamp]

:D nice dude why dont yall see sum romantic movies :D like notebook lol She likes horrer movies.

[AK47]

:D nice dude why dont yall see sum romantic movies :D like notebook lol She likes horrer movies.
lol
notebook is not that great
i only watched cuz of rachel mcadams

[Lixie]

This is gonna be one hell of a long story.

I have loved, and love, many people in my life. Out of those numbers, there are four boys that I've loved romantically, and I have been IN love with three of them.

The first boy I ever loved started in grade eight. He was my best friend and yadi yada. He never knew how I felt until the night we got fantastically drunk and I spilt the beans. Unfortunately, on the same night, I passed out from too much alcohol consumption and that resulted in him running away from home (he thought I was dead) and none of us--including his family--has heard from him since then.

The second boy I loved and was (is?) in love with is also my best friend... probably the only person who knows me best. We liked each other on and off, but the love for each other was always there. Now it's an unspoken, haunting thing. We've both accepted that nothing would happen between us and we go on, both of us more than content being best friends and each other's family. I wouldn't have it any other way.

The third boy I loved was the first one that was "on time." I liked him a lot at first, then fell in love with him. He liked me back, and it is said that he loves me, but to this day I still doubt. It's weird... but I can't feel love from him. For some reason, I've always felt like he kept a part of himself from me. I felt like I could never really grasp who he was. Therefore I couldn't reveal all of myself to him really. I tried to counter this by putting everything I felt about him in a book and giving him that book. I have no idea whether that helped or not. Today I still wonder how we are ever going to work, and I still feel lonely when I think of him. He is really the one person I would give any material possession or any other personal wants to be with. I CAN live without him... but it would be so much better if I could be with him.

The fourth boy I loved gave me everything he had when I was empty. I was a void of a person from draining all my feelings and myself on the third boy. I had poured my heart out to the third boy and now I had nothing. The fourth boy gave me everything he could and then some. But to tell the honest truth, I couldn't possibly return the favour. I feel guilty with him an awful lot, because I constantly feel like he deserves to have someone love him the way he cares about me. I can't give him that, because I don't have any of it.


.........

So, to sum up, love is complicated. How do draw the thin line between friendship and love? Is there even a line? After the feelings I've experienced in these different stages, I have gotten no further in finding the Truth of Love.

But perhaps there needn't be a Truth. Perhaps Love is just Love and that's all it needs to be.

[graff]

a great date movie is y tu mama tambien...god i love that move probably 3rd on my all time favorite.

and i like that last line lixie

[Nova]

I have never loved a girl that way in my life. I don't know if I'm cold and emotionless or what, you know. I dunno what's wrong with me it's just, I just sit there and think, what does it feel like to be in love? How do I know if I'm not in love right now? I dunno man, there are so many things that I want to feel, but I just don't know how.

[AK47]

take some chances by actually asking a girl out
it's hard but not that hard
if she says no and you feel rejected.... i can't help ya there, all girls say yes to me jk lol

[ColdFire]

I have never loved a girl that way in my life. I don't know if I'm cold and emotionless or what, you know. I dunno what's wrong with me it's just, I just sit there and think, what does it feel like to be in love? How do I know if I'm not in love right now? I dunno man, there are so many things that I want to feel, but I just don't know how.

I'd say dont worry about it too much. You'll find someone you love eventually, and you'll definately be able to tell the difference between liking someone and loving them. Even if you hardly know someone, I've found you still click with them right away if its gonna turn into love, so dont bother trying to force it on yourself or anything. One of the things that pisses me off most is when people say they love someone, but underestimate the word, just a pet peeve I guess.

And Lixie, I can relate to 3 of those. Oddly enough, so far in the same order...

[Lixie]

I have never loved a girl that way in my life. I don't know if I'm cold and emotionless or what, you know. I dunno what's wrong with me it's just, I just sit there and think, what does it feel like to be in love? How do I know if I'm not in love right now? I dunno man, there are so many things that I want to feel, but I just don't know how.

I'm gonna be all cliched here and tell you that you don't have to worry about wanting to feel. I believe that love finds people, mostly at the most inconvienent times... but it'll find you.

But if you truly feel like you want to feel that something special, just look all around you. See the friends that care for you, your family. I know that sounds very very very cliche... but ever since I've moved out, I've learned to appreciate family and friends so much more. I guess it's something about living with them... you just take them for granted. Once you're out on your own and you come home to an empty apartment, you realise that you'd wasted all those years hiding from intimacy with your family.

I spent my life running away from emotions, and when they caught up with me, they affected my life in a big way. So my advice to you is to not focus on the things you don't have and appreciate what you have.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Thats so true Lixie, but i was more the opposite, I knew how let my emotions out when i was livin with my family and I am more closed up now, well, thats since my dad died, Im not talkin of my feelings to anyone since that happened in fact.

[King Vamp]

:D :D I just seen my GF and I got a hug out of her. :P :D Life Is Good Again.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Lol, she is your girlfriend and all you 2 do are hugs, lol, how old are you and you GF?

[AK47]

i think he's 13
when i was twelve i had a gf and all i did was give hugs
i talk to her a lot now but she's not my gf
gf's are stupid in junior high
sry king vamp but i said it

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Euh, I tthink i was at high school when i was 13, and i was having kisses with my GF when i was 13.

[AK47]

what.......the......heck......
that's not love dmrl.... you are sick jk
i don't want to know about the kissing part though lol
anyways you odn't think that was love do you dmrl?

[V.VELDANEN]

Love is a feeling,
Hugs are sweet,
Cuddles are an adoration,
Kisses are a form of passion,
Sex is everything else

[King Vamp]

i think he's 13
when i was twelve i had a gf and all i did was give hugs
i talk to her a lot now but she's not my gf
gf's are stupid in junior high
sry king vamp but i said it

Yes me and her are 13. And I will kiss her when it's the right time. We have been going out for 3 weeks. I've only seen her 3 times for about 2 hours at a time. We see each other at this club thing.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Hey, kisses are a part of love AK, i didnt say i was kissing just for the act of kissing, i kissed that girl cause we were in love at the time, but i know what you mean KV, and take your time, you must not be rushed for it to happen, you got all the time for it dude so go at your rythm.

[tsunade ^_^]

THe wise words of DMRL and oh so true! Dont you people think that the teens of today grow up sooo fast! My cousin is 13 and already she has a bf! All of us(my other cuzins and myself) protested because I was only allowed to date in grade 11 (std9 I was 17). They must take their time and still find out who they are and want to be AND enjoy friends because believe me when you get older you friends just start to dissappear

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Well, im 18 and i got the same friends i had years ago, so i dont think you loses all your friends when you grow up, but i agree that teens of today are doin things not their age way too fast, some kids lose their virginity in junior high, thats hard to believe but its true and its the world of today, a f*cked up messed up world in my opinion!

[tsunade ^_^]

I never said that you loose all of dem all I sed is they get fewer

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Ah my bad, but yes that is true, lets just say that there times in life when you get to see who are your real friends.

[Lixie]

Well, im 18 and i got the same friends i had years ago, so i dont think you loses all your friends when you grow up, but i agree that teens of today are doin things not their age way too fast, some kids lose their virginity in junior high, thats hard to believe but its true and its the world of today, a f*cked up messed up world in my opinion!

I entirely agree. It's sad to see 10 year olds prancing around now acting like adults. They will be the generation who have nothing to say for their childhood once they grow up. I blame this on how easily human beings succumb to consumerism, commercialism and materialism (that's a lot of 'isms).

It's especially weird to see elementary school kids with cell phones already. When you look at the cell phone market, they even have phones MADE for elementary school kids. Our world now is driven by economic developement and the top dogs up there could care less about what they're doing to our younger generations... as long as they're making the money.

Basically I kind of hope another World War would be started... call me an extremist, but that is what I hope for. A World War woud shake the citizens of the world to actually pay attention to what is going on now.

After WWII, everyone got all into the nationalist movement and the world wide economy movement... what they didn't realise was that they only traded one kind of lie (imperialistic rule) for another kind of lie (state leaders). I'm not bashing States and I'm not bashing democracy.. I'm bashing the politicians who use the word democracy out of context and against their own people.

Democracy, State, Citizens with free wills. What do any of these terms mean anymore? The people of today have turned into sheep, soaking in the wolves' lies about living free.

Basically... the ideals some great leaders in the past came up with are now being abused as lies those in power tell us to keep us from looking at the rut we're in.



Sorry about the rant, but I feel strongly about this. I know this thread is about love... oh the bit about friends. I'm almost 21 years old now, and my close friends are like my family. We've actually said that to each other on many drunken occasions. But that doesn't make it any less true. I've seen people lose friends here and there but it's not happened to me... I control my life and I decide how strong my friendships are, and I've built unbreakable bonds with the people I care infiinitely about and would not wish to lose. Personally I think everyone has that power themselves, but they don't know it because they think they are powerless against external influences.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

I like what you sayin Lixie, and it is so true that markets of everykind got their eyes on youth cause they know too well they are the perfect aim to make money, but i think you goin too far with a world war, those wars makes people look at the community indeed, but its not somethin to wish for, tons of lifes are lost and disease are created, plus, a world war in our era would be even more dangerous than the old ones cause the weapon we got to day or way more powerful, nuclear bombs are so much more powerful than the 2 used in WW2 by the States. Finally, i agree with the thing you said on friendship, its up to you to make those bonds and have good friends.

[Hime_sama]

I have never loved a girl that way in my life. I don't know if I'm cold and emotionless or what, you know. I dunno what's wrong with me it's just, I just sit there and think, what does it feel like to be in love? How do I know if I'm not in love right now? I dunno man, there are so many things that I want to feel, but I just don't know how.

i have been in love once. trust me, if it's not the right time, falling in love is such a painful thing. i believe in attraction at first sight, but not love. love is something that is built on many things: trust, care, loyalty, confidence, intimacy, looking for your love one's welfare and not your own, etc.

prolly you haven't fallen in love because you haven't opened your heart to any girl, or you've prolly haven't found the right girl to be open with. guys sometimes precipitate into love without using their brains.

my bro is in love right now with this girl that every single person around him has told him she's no good! she has cheated on him twice, and still he goes back to her. she's irresponsible, stupid, and i won't continue cuz i'll get nasty.. i worry so much for my bro. i wish i could erase this girl from his life. unfortunately, is his life to do with whatever he wants. i'm always there for him, although he's being an ass.. hopefully he'll learn the hardway before he gets her knocked up and ruins his life forever.

guys, try to use your brains a lil bit when looking for a girl. and girls too! not the first guy that comes around and tells you he loves you, loves you!!! there's alot of selfish ppl out there, just looking to use you for their own pleasure!!! you're better off alone than with someone like that. and try listening to your friends!! they don't tell you to leave someone cu they want to see you unhappy. otherwise, what kind of friends do you have???


anyways, if you want to fall in love, you have to open your heart. and i don't know who said this before, but you have to take risks!
but risk yourself for a girl whose worth it!

[Nova]

I agree with everyone about the generation of adults being brought up. It sickens me to see how much sex and immoral crap that is being pushed on our young ones. You know, it was hard enough being a kid in the 90's, but these children don't even get to enjoy there childhood. I mean I'm 16, and I'm still enjoying being a kid. I see all these people around me being in "love", and you know it's sophomoric & idiotic. All teenage love will do is make high school much harder than it should be. I just think that one thing that this already chaotic world doesn't need, is a generation of people that are so liberal and sexually free with their bodies. Imagine their children.....heartbreaking ain't it?

[pandora666]

Valid points all of you (tnova,hime-sama and lixie).
The problem,the way I see it,is people behave the same way with their bf's and gf's as they do with every other people,as they do with their lives:irresponsibly,ignorantly and with lack of any real understanding of the situation.You and I may behave sentimentally and carefully,but everyone else just doesn't give a damn!That's the harsh reality.Tread carefully...

[ZrAeNiAn]

Well, im 18 and i got the same friends i had years ago, so i dont think you loses all your friends when you grow up, but i agree that teens of today are doin things not their age way too fast, some kids lose their virginity in junior high, thats hard to believe but its true and its the world of today, a f*cked up messed up world in my opinion!

I entirely agree. It's sad to see 10 year olds prancing around now acting like adults. They will be the generation who have nothing to say for their childhood once they grow up. I blame this on how easily human beings succumb to consumerism, commercialism and materialism (that's a lot of 'isms).

It's especially weird to see elementary school kids with cell phones already. When you look at the cell phone market, they even have phones MADE for elementary school kids. Our world now is driven by economic developement and the top dogs up there could care less about what they're doing to our younger generations... as long as they're making the money.

Basically I kind of hope another World War would be started... call me an extremist, but that is what I hope for. A World War woud shake the citizens of the world to actually pay attention to what is going on now.

After WWII, everyone got all into the nationalist movement and the world wide economy movement... what they didn't realise was that they only traded one kind of lie (imperialistic rule) for another kind of lie (state leaders). I'm not bashing States and I'm not bashing democracy.. I'm bashing the politicians who use the word democracy out of context and against their own people.

Democracy, State, Citizens with free wills. What do any of these terms mean anymore? The people of today have turned into sheep, soaking in the wolves' lies about living free.

Basically... the ideals some great leaders in the past came up with are now being abused as lies those in power tell us to keep us from looking at the rut we're in.



Sorry about the rant, but I feel strongly about this. I know this thread is about love... oh the bit about friends. I'm almost 21 years old now, and my close friends are like my family. We've actually said that to each other on many drunken occasions. But that doesn't make it any less true. I've seen people lose friends here and there but it's not happened to me... I control my life and I decide how strong my friendships are, and I've built unbreakable bonds with the people I care infiinitely about and would not wish to lose. Personally I think everyone has that power themselves, but they don't know it because they think they are powerless against external influences.


Democracy? nope.. what to blame, Mediacracy... that is what we live in these days.

Media, commercialism and the eager minds sucking up all these stuff to easily.

Media is in control, media decides what is good and what is wrong. Sure there are some media forms that do not approve of this, but those dont focus on the kids you are talking about.

Parents see at the 9 o clock news the statistics about the age their children are in are already sexual active at the minor age of 14. Now the parents both have a job, both are to busy with other things to even pay any attention to their kids for real.

This happens these days way to much, parents not being able to take care of their children. Wifes/Husbands to concerned about their own future instead of their own childrens their future. Kids get neglected, kids turn for information to the internet, the TV and radio or older kids around them.

These media items show to many things, music these days on TV channels (MTV and the likes) shows music where they use pimping as a good thing for soemthing... :S.. "that car is pimping hot" .. WTF!!!... and kids take these things so lightly. half of them dont know the meaning of the word.. yet they use it for everything.

Lust becomes for love these days. I told a friend recently what love is to me. How i think love works. But i did tell my friend specifically.. that love and lust are not connected. Only when the persons involved want to.

And the media these days, focusses on lust.. instead of love.

my 0,02$

-Zr-

[Nova]

Zr, I feel the exact same way. People are to busy focusing on what is cool than what is right. That is why I have dubbed MTV, Moron TeleVision!

[King Vamp]

:cry: :cry: :cry: My GF dumped me for some other guy. I called her to ask her on a date and she said she had to check and she would call me back. So when she called me 5 hours later and she broke up with me. :evil: :evil: :evil:

[Lost Prophet]

that sucks....

[King Vamp]

And I was already having a bad day. Look at the spam zone and I just explained.

[Lost Prophet]

you will find someone better...

[King Vamp]

God I hope so. I need sombody normal.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

KV, that girl who broke off, its the same girl you had a hug with a couple of days ago, man, she is mean, i really hope for you to find someone better too.

[King Vamp]

Yes that was the same girl

[AK47]

egg her boyfriend's house
did she dump you bad?

[DJ Jaime]

I guess she was your first girlfriend.. right?

[King Vamp]

A) I dont know who her BF is

B) No. It was over the Phone and I did not hear much of what she said.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Man, what she did is really slutty, and at such a young age, imagine the things shell do when older.

[Lost Prophet]

slutty? what did she do?

[King Vamp]

yeah...I tought she was so nice and sweet too. :cry: :cry:

[DJ Jaime]

Yes.. That is just sick

[Lost Prophet]

ohh, dump you like that...she shopuld have known her place....well, I guess I should hold off on my plans of a relationship with a girl I am close with.....give it a while I should....

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Man! You should get a vengence and prank her, lol, muhahahahahahha!

[Lost Prophet]

or bitchslap her...

[DJ Jaime]

Pranks are not good.. Seriously... Do something else..
..Tomorrow I'll explain my love story related to pranks... But not now since it's late and I'm kinda tiread.

[King Vamp]

I dont know. I did not even know her when she asked me out. I seen her around, but did not know her. We even took pics toghther.

[Lost Prophet]

rip them and burn them...in front of her...trust me, she will feel guilty and see you are serious...

[DJ Jaime]

I dont know. I did not even know her when she asked me out. I seen her around, but did not know her. We even took pics toghther.
No offense but maybe she was just messing around with you.

[Lost Prophet]

I dont know. I did not even know her when she asked me out. I seen her around, but did not know her. We even took pics toghther.
No offense but maybe she was just messing around with you.she probably was...

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Man, thats even worst, you shouldnt have relations that are based on nothing and wait instead of acting directly.

[King Vamp]

They were taking with a phone so they were not even on paper. Sorry for whining.

[Lost Prophet]

its okay vamp. you must vent and let it out. dont take it so hard..

[DJ Jaime]

Man, thats even worst, you shouldnt have relations that are based on nothing and wait instead of acting directly.
Exactly.. It's good to know each other before starting a serious relationship... Unless you were just dating and it wasn't anything serious.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Well, i doubt KV saw it as nothin serious cause he wouldnt be all down and depressed if that was the case.

[DJ Jaime]

Yes, I know...
I was just saying :|

But yes, I totally agree with you... It's important to know each other before starting a relationship...

[King Vamp]

we were just dating. But I really liked her. She was nice and sweet.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Lol, sorry to ask that, but do you have pics of her and you to show us.

[King Vamp]

It's ok. But no I deleted them, and I could not get them off the phone.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Ah, still, sorry to ask, it was stupid of me, but seriously, you should definitely take your time next time and make sure you know the girl better.

[King Vamp]

Yeah. It was not stuped to ask.

[AK47]

well at least you didn't use your gf
i did to become popular :)
but i realized my ex was really annoying after two weeks
like all that gossip gossip crap i hate it, all this just to become popular, so i just didn't talk to her
i didn't dump her or she didn't dump me , it was just like the distance between us started to grow and ya
i talk to her now after 4 years since the "break up"
yea so now i'm just trying to find a person that "i" can care for and take care of, and truly love for the rest of my life
man i really sound weird

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

No, not at all, im searchin for somethin serious too, for the girl that i could make a life with, im tired of all those meaningless relations and in my opinion its really time for somethin serious for me.

[DJ Jaime]

Same here, I'm 14, But I've had some love desillutions, and I want a serious relationship too.. Maybe not to marry her, but at least a serious relationship...

[Hellchild915]

:cry: :cry: :cry: My GF dumped me for some other guy. I called her to ask her on a date and she said she had to check and she would call me back. So when she called me 5 hours later and she broke up with me. :evil: :evil: :evil:

sorry about that but your young you'll find a new one and Dmrl how many times can you say sorry you have said it for the past 3 pages

[Fool Of Doom]

if you mean serious relationship as in making out ive bin in uhh..(thinks for a sec) meh about 6

[Lost Prophet]

:cry: :cry: :cry: My GF dumped me for some other guy. I called her to ask her on a date and she said she had to check and she would call me back. So when she called me 5 hours later and she broke up with me. :evil: :evil: :evil:

sorry about that but your young you'll find a new one and Dmrl how many times can you say sorry you have said it for the past 3 pagesmwahaha, I think we are all repeating ourselves tonight...

[DJ Jaime]

if you mean serious relationship as in making out ive bin in uhh..(thinks for a sec) meh about 6
Maybe.. But Making out with someone doesn't make it a serious relationship...

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

What u talkin about, i said sorry twice you idiot when i asked for the pics, shut up big mex guy, lol, j/k!

[Lost Prophet]

if you mean serious relationship as in making out ive bin in uhh..(thinks for a sec) meh about 6
Maybe.. But Making out with someone doesn't make it a serious relationship...exactly. many youths tend to confuse a serious relationship with a minor one when making out comes into it

[AK47]

you only make out to see what your gf had for lunch

[King Vamp]

if you mean serious relationship as in making out ive bin in uhh..(thinks for a sec) meh about 6
Maybe.. But Making out with someone doesn't make it a serious relationship...yeah DJ's right. A sereis relationship is when you are in love.

[Fool Of Doom]

if you mean serious relationship as in making out ive bin in uhh..(thinks for a sec) meh about 6
Maybe.. But Making out with someone doesn't make it a serious relationship...yeah but the longest ive had a gf was like 8-9months but that doesnt count because we only kissed once and i was like 6 year old in kinder

[Nova]

God I hope so. I need sombody normal.

Dude don't worry about girls, your too young. You need to worry about studies and anything else important in your life. Trust me, I'm 16 and I still don't worry about chicks, being in a relationship during middle-high school just messes up your schedule.

[AK47]

you only make out to see what your gf had for lunch
you:"mmm... it tastes good"
gf: "thanx"
you: "no i meant that chicken in your teeth,"

[Lost Prophet]

you only make out to see what your gf had for lunch

LMAO!!! good one, AK

[Fool Of Doom]

you only make out to see what your gf had for lunchyeah but it becomes a freaking pain when u are trying to steal it

[Bap]

^What he said. It'll come naturally, on its own

[DJ Jaime]

if you mean serious relationship as in making out ive bin in uhh..(thinks for a sec) meh about 6
Maybe.. But Making out with someone doesn't make it a serious relationship...yeah but the longest ive had a gf was like 8-9months but that doesnt count because we only kissed once and i was like 6 year old in kinder

You've probably never had a serious relationship then...

God I hope so. I need sombody normal.

Dude don't worry about girls, your too young. You need to worry about studies and anything else important in your life. Trust me, I'm 16 and I still don't worry about chicks, being in a relationship during middle-high school just messes up your schedule.

That's something (IMO) wrong. I do agree with the fact that you need to move on, but seriously, having a relationship doesn't necesarily mean it will mess up your schedule, it just depends on how responsible you are.

[Fool Of Doom]

God I hope so. I need sombody normal.

Dude don't worry about girls, your too young. You need to worry about studies and anything else important in your life. Trust me, I'm 16 and I still don't worry about chicks, being in a relationship during middle-high school just messes up your schedule.well but having made doing hw a bit easier..we used to switch hw and she was a retard so her hw was easy but i forgot that she was too stupid to do my homework :P

[AK47]

i see this couple at my school,
it's a really skinny asian dude and a really fat chick, like almost obese(how do you spell it)
anyways i see them make out (and i like it!!) and i wonder what the skinny dude gets good out of it
"MMM... CAKE!!!!"

[Fool Of Doom]

a skinny asian dude with a fat ass... wierd...

[Nova]

That's something (IMO) wrong. I do agree with the fact that you need to move on, but seriously, having a relationship doesn't necesarily mean it will mess up your schedule, it just depends on how responsible you are.

ok wait, lets see. who's older? huh? yeah, thats right....one thing you must remember. Girls are most of the time, extremely talkative and annoying. Including all the goofing off and drama she'll put you through, it's not worth interrupting your life, imo/

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

yes, i actually had a 2 and half years relationship with a girl when i was 14 or 15, lol, i cant remember exactly, and at moments i thought she was the girl of my life, but it didnt turned out that way, so i say too that when you really in love, its aight to be even though your young, and it doesnt hurt schedules too much, i think.

[AK47]

That's something (IMO) wrong. I do agree with the fact that you need to move on, but seriously, having a relationship doesn't necesarily mean it will mess up your schedule, it just depends on how responsible you are.

ok wait, lets see. who's older? huh? yeah, thats right....one thing you must remember. Girls are most of the time, extremely talkative and annoying. Including all the goofing off and drama she'll put you through, it's not worth interrupting your life, imo/
what has that got do with anything
dj jaime is right it depends on how responsible you are

[Nova]

look, imo, i just don't understand why you would want to go through all that trouble just to have your heart torn out and stepped on by a pair of tar covered high heels.

[DJ Jaime]

look, imo, i just don't understand why you would want to go through all that trouble just to have your heart torn out and stepped on by a pair of tar covered high heels.
Because sometimes it may not end up as bad as you think... At least from personal experiences... I sometimes don't tell anyone but my friends how I feel like.. so yeah.. Relationships are good...

[AK47]

you're being completely sexist
girls are completely annoying?
wow watch what you are posting

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

yes i think you goin overboard with that dude, maybe you just say that cause in relaity, u never had a girl so you sayin your frustration on them here.

[AK47]

yes it might not even be the girl tnova it might just be you
or it might be because where you live the girls are all like that but not all girls, MOST girls aren't like that

[Hellchild915]

LOVE (CRAP)


Love is the cause of all mortal sins

Love was invented by the devil

LOVE IS THE CRUELEST THING ON EARTH

LOVE IS THE THING THAT WILL DESTROY MANY LIFE'S(mine) and ULTIMATELY DESTROY THE WORLD

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Dude, what happened to you, what that''mine'' means, tell us ur story!

[Nova]

what the hell?!?!? first of all DMRL and AK, you don't even know me, so don't pass any judgements on me. Dude, you ever care to think that maybe I'm right? Most high school girls are just what I said, "high school girls". Every guy knows that most of them are extremely shallow. I have no problem with girls, in fact I could get a girlfriend if I wanted to. But the fact is, girls, lust, and sex, all make guys stupid. Every guy who's been through puberty knows, that lust will make you go crazy (not literally). It's just a waste of time, why worry about stupid crap like middle school girlfriends when you have your entire life ahead of you. Girls in high school are just troublesome....

And I totally agree with Edgar, Love/Lust is the cause of all crimes, be it lust after women, money, or things, it all makes the mind go numb.

[AK47]

first you say "girls", now you say "high school girls", THEN you say love, lust, girls, sex...
SAY SOMETHING SPECIFIC
and how am i supposed to say something when you say some stupid untrue sexist remark and then after i post you post a whole different idea just to argue back

so one hundred percent of the girls in your school are supposedly "extremely shallow"
how many girls in your school?... like 12??!?!
and i don't know who you are and some of your facts are true,
but there are more than 12 girls in this world and you can't just sit there saying, how am i gonna find a love, how does it feel?

[ColdFire]

I actually agree with what tnovas saying. For the most part, high school girls, and guys too, wont give a damn unless whoever they like is hot. Then when 2 people go out, its not all that uncommon to see them making out a day or two after. The lust factor hits alot of people a little too hard. Not saying that its like this for everyone, because its not. That is how it often work out though.

[DJ Jaime]

what the hell?!?!? first of all DMRL and AK, you don't even know me, so don't pass any judgements on me. Dude, you ever care to think that maybe I'm right? Most high school girls are just what I said, "high school girls". Every guy knows that most of them are extremely shallow. I have no problem with girls, in fact I could get a girlfriend if I wanted to. But the fact is, girls, lust, and sex, all make guys stupid. Every guy who's been through puberty knows, that lust will make you go crazy (not literally). It's just a waste of time, why worry about stupid crap like middle school girlfriends when you have your entire life ahead of you. Girls in high school are just troublesome....
Sure many high school girls are like that, and you said it yourself.. "Most" but not all of them.. I have plenty female friends who aren't like that (Of course I also know some of them who are indeed like that). I agree with you when it comes to the fact that most people go crazy and just wanna make out, because sadly it's true. But I personally think being in love (In love... not just liking someone) isn't a waste of time at all...

[AK47]

of course lust was a factor since a 3 thousand years ago and we will never change it, it's an "evil" that existed in humans for centuries and milleniums, (maybe not in cavemen, or i don't even know if they exist)
but yes a little percentage is not living the lust factor and it's very hard to find a love for the rest of your life, but if you just sit there waiting for somebody to get me, your not gonna find that "special" somebody

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

what the hell?!?!? first of all DMRL and AK, you don't even know me, so don't pass any judgements on me. Dude, you ever care to think that maybe I'm right? Most high school girls are just what I said, "high school girls". Every guy knows that most of them are extremely shallow. I have no problem with girls, in fact I could get a girlfriend if I wanted to. But the fact is, girls, lust, and sex, all make guys stupid. Every guy who's been through puberty knows, that lust will make you go crazy (not literally). It's just a waste of time, why worry about stupid crap like middle school girlfriends when you have your entire life ahead of you. Girls in high school are just troublesome....

And I totally agree with Edgar, Love/Lust is the cause of all crimes, be it lust after women, money, or things, it all makes the mind go numb.

Lol, you are so wrong, i principally quote your sentence in which you say its a waste of time, it isnt dude! Those high school relationships might not be as serious, or for a long time, but they arent a waste, those relations are life experience, they are the ones that make us change and wanna search for somethin serious. We need those experience to learn from our errors.

[Nova]

of course lust was a factor since a 3 thousand years ago and we will never change it, it's an "evil" that existed in humans for centuries and milleniums, (maybe not in cavemen, or i don't even know if they exist)
but yes a little percentage is not living the lust factor and it's very hard to find a love for the rest of your life, but if you just sit there waiting for somebody to get me, your not gonna find that "special" somebody

I agree with you dude. If it truly is love then it's no waste of time. The chance's of finding love in high school is very slim, so unless the girl is someone you know and already love and care for, I really see no point in having a fake little relationship with her.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Yes there is a point, read my previous posts, those relations are forming you and givin you experiences.

[AK47]

well sometimes it can give you experience, but most times it can break your heart and you keep on regretting the mistakes you made in the relationship
i doubt many people learn from their mistakes and go onto a new relationship. unless they both accept the break up of the relationship

[KageNaruto]

i do agree with DMRL but i also think blind love and love based on looks is really stupid.

i kinda have a crush on this one girl right now, but eh.., i have a really hard time aksing gils out lol. it seems she kinda likes me too but i dunno (yes im kinda bad with girls! :cry: ). i knew her for like 3 years, but the 1st year i barely talked to her, cause she wasnt in any of my classes, the second year we became friends like at the end of the year and contacted over the summer. then this year (which is almost done) we had only one class together but i start liking her more and more.

but yeah thats kinda uselss to post but this whole thread is like about your lovelife or problems i guess so w/e

[Nova]

well sometimes it can give you experience, but most times it can break your heart and you keep on regretting the mistakes you made in the relationship
i doubt many people learn from their mistakes and go onto a new relationship. unless they both accept the break up of the relationship

I agree, the majority of high school relationships will just make you regret it all together. People don't learn from their mistakes, that's why girls continously seem to dat guys that cheat on them every chance they get.

And to DMRL, yes having relationships gives you experience, kissing, talking with the opposite sex, & other things. But what if the majority of people don't care about that? What if instead of being a great kisser, someone would rather share a clumsy first kiss at the right moment with the right girl? I know what I'm saying seems very cliche, but still it's something that the majority of youth today don't care about, they just want sex...

[AK47]

well sometimes it can give you experience, but most times it can break your heart and you keep on regretting the mistakes you made in the relationship
i doubt many people learn from their mistakes and go onto a new relationship. unless they both accept the break up of the relationship

I agree, the majority of high school relationships will just make you regret it all together. People don't learn from their mistakes, that's why girls continously seem to dat guys that cheat on them every chance they get.

And to DMRL, yes having relationships gives you experience, kissing, talking with the opposite sex, & other things. But what if the majority of people don't care about that? What if instead of being a great kisser, someone would rather share a clumsy first kiss at the right moment with the right girl? I know what I'm saying seems very cliche, but still it's something that the majority of youth today don't care about, they just want sex...
yest that's true
relationships help your social life and stuff and can make you really popular
but like you said tnova, media is influencing us with sex and all that bull
mtv sux big dink

[Nova]

yeah, we should all boycott MTV, that's like a whole .000000001% of there audience that ain't watchin'.

[DJ Jaime]

To be honest I can somehow identify with both points of view...

At least me, being a teenager, admit that I like lots of girls who are hot and well.. yeah.. you know... there's lust in my thoughts, heh...

But despite all of that, I like this girl who IMO is beautiful (Hot and Beautiful is different to me) and I really like her, and nope, I somehow don't think of sex when I'm with her... I just like her...

So, to me... Hot and beautiful are different terms, even if I like lots of girls, there's just one I really love and I'd never cheat on her...

..Do you get what I'm saying?

[Sexy no Jutsu]

1st gf: Meh, one of those fifth grade curiosity things, hah.

2nd gf: 13-15 got together it was great, she cheated on me twice tho.... bitch...

Now, im jus a full-time pimp! REPRESENT! just kidding tho, havent found anyone yet, theere is a couple, but they're like best friends. So if anything went wrong the friendship would be over.

[animeking]

hahaha not sure why but this is something i can agree to lol i mean lol what everyone has been saying here been making laugh there is to much truth to all of this o_O :lol: :lol: :lol: hahah!

[KageNaruto]

lol yeah i cant imagine any straight guy who can walk past a really really hot chick and not think "shes hot."

it doesent really mean anything though

also relationshipes based on lust arent love

[Nova]

lol yeah i cant imagine any straight guy who can walk past a really really hot chick and not think "shes hot."

it doesent really mean anything though

also relationshipes based on lust arent love

Dude you would be surprised how many relationships are based on lust. You know what happens, they end up badly.

[DJ Jaime]

Yes, And there's a huge difference between hot and beautiful (to me, at least)

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

BUt what kage said is true, i dont think any of us can walk and not take a look at a hot chick, its like a natural thing to do, its always pleasant to the eyes.

[Hime_sama]

which is better jaime, hot or beautiful?

[DJ Jaime]

which is better jaime, hot or beautiful?
Personally, Beautiful... To me, a person is beautiful when I get to know her and I just love her, heck, I even forget about sex when I'm with that person, and well... That's hard to find but is worth it...

Hot people are just everywhere. :|

[AK47]

yes
i am hot

[KageNaruto]

yes
i am hot

lol, wow that made me laugh a lot for some reason. yeah i also think beautiful is better than hot

and i nkow a lot of relationships are based on lust, im just saying that its not love if you have a relationship like that

[AK47]

well sometimes you can have kinky love hehehe

[Hellchild915]

which is better jaime, hot or beautiful?

Beautiful is way better

[Nova]

I'm so alone.....WHY?!?!?! I need lessons on making small talk with women. I'm just like Manaka from Ichigo 100%, I'd rather sit and watch her smile than have to confess to her.

[DJ Jaime]

I'm so alone.....WHY?!?!?! I need lessons on making small talk with women. I'm just like Manaka from Ichigo 100%, I'd rather sit and watch her smile than have to confess to her.
That happens to pretty much everyone (or most people at least)... Just be yourself...

[AK47]

be kinky
be a kink
whip her
spank her

[ZrAeNiAn]

yes
i am hot

WE WANT PROOF!!! :P

we all know i am!.. but you... nuhu :p

-Zr-

[KageNaruto]

I'm so alone.....WHY?!?!?! I need lessons on making small talk with women. I'm just like Manaka from Ichigo 100%, I'd rather sit and watch her smile than have to confess to her.

haha youre not the olny one, i cant confess that i like a girl, like at all.

[AK47]

yes
i am hot

WE WANT PROOF!!! :P

we all know i am!.. but you... nuhu :p

-Zr-
sigh
do you know who i am
i am the hottest guy on the planet
i will show you with my beautiful sexy words
rawr!!!

[animeking]

oh yeah and to answer the thread question no i have never fallen in love (unless lustful desires count O_O lol) and i have no had a relationship so yeah also im 16 (waits for your a loser comment) LOL (hopes to one day fall in love with a girl/women lol)

[Hellchild915]

oh yeah and to answer the thread question no i have never fallen in love (unless lustful desires count O_O lol) and i have no had a relationship so yeah also im 16 (waits for your a loser comment) LOL

I've never really had a relationship and Im 18 so its not that bad but when i go to college next year Im ready to get laid every night ahahahahha

[animeking]

oh yeah and to answer the thread question no i have never fallen in love (unless lustful desires count O_O lol) and i have no had a relationship so yeah also im 16 (waits for your a loser comment) LOL

I've never really had a relationship and Im 18 so its not that bad but when i go to college next year Im ready to get laid every night ahahahahha


every night LUCKY SON OF A (jokeing lol) yeah im gonna assume the every night thing is a joke (imagines if he really means it and than he gets tested and the docs say sir you have aids and 3 other STD's yeah your f***ed)

[Hellchild915]

hhahahahaha yes Im joking but if I wasnt that probably would happen to me and maybe even more then that ahahaha(well if it happens its not funny but for now it is)

[Nova]

"And not just AIDs Edgar.....You have Super AIDs, one spoon o' that in your bum and you'll be dead in a year!'

[Fool Of Doom]

hhahahahaha yes Im joking but if I wasnt that probably would happen to me and maybe even more then that ahahaha(well if it happens its not funny but for now it is)muai mommy sais fowteenyear owds arent awoud to get waid...

[AK47]

L is for the way you look at me
O is for the only one I see
V is very, very extraordinary
E is even more than anyone that you adore can

[Nova]

MMMMMM L-O-V-E.......*Drooling Uncontrollably*

[Chidongan]

DUUUUUDE. love is a bitch. i've had many meaningless relationships but only a few (what i think it is) loves. one girl in particular the only girl i actually told how i feel. i knew her since 10th grade and back then i thought she was a spoiled bitch, so i didnt talk to her at all. then the first day of junior year she is in the same geometery (yes im a lil slow in math) class as me as well as the same table. all of second semster we got along great we came pretty close (imo) we talked about stupid stuff all the time, and we both loved to talk to each other (again imo). one day she kept dropping hints at me that her bf moved to colorado and she needed someone to go to prom with. and i just happened to be busy that weekend, even thought she didnt say it directly i kinda got the idea she wanted to go with me. so i just sorta directed her away from that path. later on i grew to like her more and more. so much so that i gave her a letter just pretty much stating that i liked her alot, and even if she didnt like me back it was ok, i just 'wanted her to know how i feel'.

and that killed my entire relationship with her. she said that she was glad that i told her and that she was sorry that she couldnt return the feelings or someshit. then we kept talking less and less till senior year. we had another class together, and we barely talked at all. she mostly started the conversations and i just replied, i didnt have the courage to go up to her and talk to her outta the blue. and now we dont talk to each other at all. my heart ached for the longest time, so i convinced myself that i really didnt 'love' her that i just tricked myself in to believing that becuase, ironically, my friend was also in love with a girl with the same name, physical attributes and such (he went to a different school, same with the girl). and apparently it turned out great for him.

and now im fu***** depressed as hell. im ok most days but once in a while i get really depressed and just feel like sitting alone. and i just really want someone to talk to. yea i know it sounds gay, but its true.

P.S. there are more stories just as bad. e.g. some girl i barely met this year kept getting really close and personal with me always hugging touching me and sutff (i didnt really mind ;)), but lately shes been sayin' sutff like 'i love you' and stuff. i know she just says it for the hell of it, but sometimes it feels like she really means it. but thats a story for antoher day.

I'm so alone.....WHY?!?!?! I need lessons on making small talk with women. I'm just like Manaka from Ichigo 100%, I'd rather sit and watch her smile than have to confess to her.

oh and i see you started watching ichigo 100%. how do you like it so far?

[Nova]

I love it dude. It's such a relateable show, in some aspects, except for the fact that I'd never have 3 gorgeous women coming after me.

But yeah I feel where you're coming from dude. That's why I'm so scared to open up. I've always been the witty guy who's always there for people, and in reality I'm a very emotional guy. I'd like to find a girl to confide in, but I really would rather be with her, than actually confess and see her turn her back on me.

[KageNaruto]

I love it dude. It's such a relateable show, in some aspects, except for the fact that I'd never have 3 gorgeous women coming after me.

But yeah I feel where you're coming from dude. That's why I'm so scared to open up. I've always been the witty guy who's always there for people, and in reality I'm a very emotional guy. I'd like to find a girl to confide in, but I really would rather be with her, than actually confess and see her turn her back on me.

lol hahah i guess you could say my "chaos" son has the same problem as i do somewhat.

[Chidongan]

I love it dude. It's such a relateable show, in some aspects, except for the fact that I'd never have 3 gorgeous women coming after me.

But yeah I feel where you're coming from dude. That's why I'm so scared to open up. I've always been the witty guy who's always there for people, and in reality I'm a very emotional guy. I'd like to find a girl to confide in, but I really would rather be with her, than actually confess and see her turn her back on me.

who wouldnt want 3 gorgeous woman fighting over him?

btw back on topic.

i cant really seem to open up to girls either. i can talk to them about whatever. i can pretty much talk to any girl i want to. becuase of that all my friends call me a 'pimp', but i have one question.

Do pimps, too, fall in love?

if no, then i am no pimp.

starting this morning i swore to myself that i would try to be the happy fun-loving kid i used to be. and it was really interesting. before 4th period i kept shouting in the hallways, while walking with my friends. "WHO DO YOU THINK IS HOT?" ''HER OVER THERE--BY THE DOOR?" '' YEA SHES OKAY I GUESS!!" ''I BONED HER BEFORE!" and trust me it felt good. i could say whatever i wanted and no one seemed to care. im thinking of giving up on love and just continuing my life like this.

[KageNaruto]

I love it dude. It's such a relateable show, in some aspects, except for the fact that I'd never have 3 gorgeous women coming after me.

But yeah I feel where you're coming from dude. That's why I'm so scared to open up. I've always been the witty guy who's always there for people, and in reality I'm a very emotional guy. I'd like to find a girl to confide in, but I really would rather be with her, than actually confess and see her turn her back on me.

who wouldnt want 3 gorgeous woman fighting over him?

btw back on topic.

i cant really seem to open up to girls either. i can talk to them about whatever. i can pretty much talk to any girl i want to. becuase of that all my friends call me a 'pimp', but i have one question.

Do pimps, too, fall in love?

if no, then i am no pimp.

starting this morning i swore to myself that i would try to be the happy fun-loving kid i used to be. and it was really interesting. before 4th period i kept shouting in the hallways, while walking with my friends. "WHO DO YOU THINK IS HOT?" ''HER OVER THERE--BY THE DOOR?" '' YEA SHES OKAY I GUESS!!" ''I BONED HER BEFORE!" and trust me it felt good. i could say whatever i wanted and no one seemed to care. im thinking of giving up on love and just continuing my life like this.

to answer the question you asked, a gay guy wouldnt want that

[AK47]

I love it dude. It's such a relateable show, in some aspects, except for the fact that I'd never have 3 gorgeous women coming after me.

But yeah I feel where you're coming from dude. That's why I'm so scared to open up. I've always been the witty guy who's always there for people, and in reality I'm a very emotional guy. I'd like to find a girl to confide in, but I really would rather be with her, than actually confess and see her turn her back on me.

who wouldnt want 3 gorgeous woman fighting over him?

btw back on topic.

i cant really seem to open up to girls either. i can talk to them about whatever. i can pretty much talk to any girl i want to. becuase of that all my friends call me a 'pimp', but i have one question.

Do pimps, too, fall in love?

if no, then i am no pimp.

starting this morning i swore to myself that i would try to be the happy fun-loving kid i used to be. and it was really interesting. before 4th period i kept shouting in the hallways, while walking with my friends. "WHO DO YOU THINK IS HOT?" ''HER OVER THERE--BY THE DOOR?" '' YEA SHES OKAY I GUESS!!" ''I BONED HER BEFORE!" and trust me it felt good. i could say whatever i wanted and no one seemed to care. im thinking of giving up on love and just continuing my life like this.
PIMP 4EVA!!!!!
that is the way to go in high school right now
you have a whole life to become in love with someone
even if you are a horny old gramps

[Hellchild915]

As i said before Love=Devil

[King Vamp]

I already like someone new. :P But I really do....BUT I WILL NOT HER OUT. yet. I'll ask her to a dance coming up. But fist I NEED to get to know her first. I know. You don't have to tell me.

[Nova]

Dude Chidongan, I would love to have 3 beautiful chicks chasin' after me.

[KageNaruto]

so far i has my sights on one girl for about a year....

i know a bit about her and we seem like good friends.

but w/e vamp you like too many new girls....im guessing you wont find a partner till after youre out of college lol(no offense [and i mean permanent partner])

[King Vamp]

The funny thing is....your probably right Kage. I'm not going to ask her out. Just to the social (The Prom of the 8th grade.)

[pandora666]

Dude Chidongan, I would love to have 3 beautiful chicks chasin' after me.
How about just one that you really like? 3 could get really annoying after a while.

[Nova]

Dude Chidongan, I would love to have 3 beautiful chicks chasin' after me.
How about just one that you really like? 3 could get really annoying after a while.

Yeah I know, but if it was 1, she wouldn't be chasin' me. If I knew she liked me that much, she'd already be mine. Watch Ichigo 100% you guys, or read the manga.

[Phoenix-Lord]

lucky bastards...

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Lol, t-nova, werent you the one who said you didnt care about the appearance and all that and now you say youd like to have 3 chicks after you, lol, but even though its true that its kinda nice to feel popular and have girls liking you, i kinda hate it, i hate groopies so much, there are some bball groopies here and i sooooooo hate them, those meaningless damn hoes! Those girls, its like all the school passed over them, its written''Danger, do not approash or disease is promise'' over them, LOL!

[Nova]

Lol, t-nova, werent you the one who said you didnt care about the appearance and all that and now you say youd like to have 3 chicks after you, lol, but even though its true that its kinda nice to feel popular and have girls liking you, i kinda hate it, i hate groopies so much, there are some bball groopies here and i sooooooo hate them, those meaningless damn hoes! Those girls, its like all the school passed over them, its written''Danger, do not approash or disease is promise'' over them, LOL!

I never said I didn't care about appearance. I at least need to be physically attracted to her before I even ask her out.

[Chidongan]

Dude Chidongan, I would love to have 3 beautiful chicks chasin' after me.
How about just one that you really like? 3 could get really annoying after a while.

Yeah I know, but if it was 1, she wouldn't be chasin' me. If I knew she liked me that much, she'd already be mine. Watch Ichigo 100% you guys, or read the manga.

so true. that anime rocks! ditto with the manga.

on topic: love=hell

[ColdFire]

Dude Chidongan, I would love to have 3 beautiful chicks chasin' after me.
How about just one that you really like? 3 could get really annoying after a while.

Yeah I know, but if it was 1, she wouldn't be chasin' me. If I knew she liked me that much, she'd already be mine. Watch Ichigo 100% you guys, or read the manga.

Trust me, its not as great as it sounds...right now I know 9 people that like me...it just complicates things.

[pandora666]

What do you mean "like"?Do you mean like going out with you,talking to you,or have a crush on you?'Cause I think it would be impossible for 9 women to have a crush on you,no matter if you are like Brad Pitt or something...

[ColdFire]

Crush. I didnt think it'd be possible either, but it seriously happened lol.

[dan2025]

"blushing and running away, trying to avoid you" crush?
or
"Always in your face asking for a date and getting jelous when seeing you with other girls" crush?

[E_Juva_Zio_Umm]

You all know nothing you all are talking about crushes and liking im in love with a girl i cant even see. you all can see the women/men you 'like' im at the point where i know and i cant do a damned thing about it.

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Lol, i sooooooo understand you, im in the same situation as you are, the girl lives at the other extremity of the globe and i dream of goin there and see her.

[KageNaruto]

happened before to me, lol. but eventually i think that kinda thing dies down and you just become very good friends, thats what happened with me.

[Nova]

You all know nothing you all are talking about crushes and liking im in love with a girl i cant even see. you all can see the women/men you 'like' im at the point where i know and i cant do a damned thing about it.

Quit being emo! It gets you nowhere!

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

Like if bein a macho and acting all tough even if we all know you are not will get you somewhere!

[Nova]

Like if bein a macho and acting all tough even if we all know you are not will get you somewhere!

First off, when do I act tough? And secondly, if I was, how would you know any different?

[AK47]

Do you hate love
or do you love hate
or do you love love
or do you hate hate
choose one of them

[Drunken_Master_Rock_Lee]

What i meant is you actin like you all tough and you dont need no love or somethin, but it aint true, love usually find you when you dont search for it so watch out, lol!

[Chidongan]

Do you hate love
or do you love hate
or do you love love
or do you hate hate
choose one of them

no matter how much hurts. the feeling of being in love is so great, it overpowers the fact that 'they' dont return your feeling. so...

i love love.

[King Vamp]

I love love


I asked that girl to the social. She said mabye....

[Nova]

Do you hate love
or do you love hate
or do you love love
or do you hate hate
choose one of them

I love love!